Reply #10: Same here -

[KT2000]

the last time I was in a church was for the funeral of a friend. She worked for the church until she got cancer then she was laid off. The pastor and her so-called friends in the church spoke mostly about how she was a smoker, her attempts at quitting (bad temper), her assigned helper who had only one request and that was to not be assigned to a smoker. Screw 'em.
It took her real friends to talk about her sense of humor, kindness, and talent.