Reply #65: That happens in big families sometimes, doesn't it?

[EFerrari]

There can be long, uncomfortable periods of chilliness or rancor. And the longer it goes on, the more likely it is to become habit.

I'd like to see us take the opportunity to do a little kinder. So many people are already struggling, they don't need any more ugly in their lives

DU seemed to have a growth spurt during the last presidential election and the sense of community, imo, took a real beating. Maybe the growth was too fast for the community to keep its character and deal with all the changes we went through at the same time.