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IdaBriggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-05-07 09:31 AM
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84. I will expain to you once more why I think YOU are selfish.
He has FOUR other children -- and you decided YOU wanted THREE MORE (that he realy can't afford to support on his current salary).

YOU make sure "your" kids have relationships with their siblings (who don't get the PRIVILEGE of seeing their father very often).

You value YOUR reationship with HIM more than you value HIS relationship with HIS children.

You KNEW he had children that he had obligations to before you married him -- and he's THOUSANDS of dollars in arrears to someone else. How was that child going to have food, clothing, etc.? Which bills are put FIRST in your household -- the child support, or your own housing, food, etc.?

I'm not saying you married a brain surgeon. And maybe you think the "sacrifices" you make everyday so that his "other children" (who you LOVE, but God forbid YOUR "real" children have to live like THAT!) can see their daddy for two days every other weekend make up for it. I don't. I think you knew exactly what you were getting when you got married, and you put YOUR WANTS ahead of what HIS children wanted -- a father who was involved with their lives on a DAILY basis.

Like attracts like. I know more about both you and your husband than I really want to, and I'm not going to bother responding to you anymore.
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