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PRETZEL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-22-11 10:37 AM
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43. I agree with the first part
disagree with the second though.

I totally agree that going to her first would be my start. She's the one having the affair. Letting her know that you and your wife also know that she's having the affair puts her on notice so to speak.

I don't agree that if she doesn't do something about it within a certain time frame then you're going to go to her husband.

Realistically, the strain on your friendship with her is already there. She's the one who's asked your wife to provide cover for her if the issue arises so both she and you know the story.

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