Reply #10: Adult Friend Finder worked for me and Mrs. Mopar

[Mopar151]

But if that's not a good option in your area... Think about clubs/afinity groups. I'm in car clubs - always some single men around, and racing clubs always need someone willing to lend a hand with timing, race control, etc. ( if this is an interest, PM me, and I can be more specific)
With your "handle", perhaps a powerlifting club would be good, or a track club. I have an older friend who's powerlifted for decades - you'd love him!
Another old friend (recently passed on) raced radio controlled sailboats for years. If you're musical, maybe an open mike night, or a theatre group.