Reply #11: Depends upon the situation.

[sarge43]

If we're talking a one nighter, fall off the wagon, damn that was stupid moment, I would not be happy and I'd have words. However, I'm not under the impression that either hubster or I are saints and we do make mistakes. I'm not ending our marriage over a mistake.

On the other, if he's leaving tracks all over the county, then I'd find the meanest, most man hating lawyer in the state and leave him without a wife and the window and the pot. Might compromise on underwear and shoes.

If it's a long term affair, then fine, game over. She can clean up after you.