Reply #48: Kids will behave in line with the expectations of them

[kwassa]

Speaking as a teacher, kids actually expect structure from adults, and like structure, as well.

They run amok when there is no clear expectations made of them, with consequences attached, as well as rewards.

It is completely common for kids to behave well in one context, and to run wild in another context. That context is controlled by the adults supervising the activity.