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Fire Walk With Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-02-07 10:51 PM
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62. Oh man, I'm sorry to hear this!
I'm one of those persons who is unable to have a quality relationship with others, am working upon myself diligently, and have no wish to inflict myself upon others unless I have some amount of maturity to offer (which might not happen).

I hope that you have had more happiness in the last 20 years than difficulty. I know many persons who have been married, or seriously involved, and have not made it to 20 years, so consider any joy that you've had, to have been worth the while. I hope that this perspective can come to you once you've worked through the upset and pain.

Do not end up blaming yourself. Be careful to watch yourself on that. Obviously, you're capable of being in a relationship for as long as you want to be, which is an accomplishment for anyone. You have this to offer, and nothing can diminish it.
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