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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-22-07 10:40 AM
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3. Sometimes there's nothing specific
Edited on Thu Feb-22-07 10:42 AM by Lydia Leftcoast
or at least, nothing specific that the man can do anything about.

Look, it happens both ways. I've had men tell me, "You're wonderful, but you're just not for me."

Sometimes that's all there is to it. There's nothing wrong with the guy--there's just no chemistry on her end.

My advice is not to get emotionally wrapped up in a situation until and unless you see sparks fly. It's a definite level beyond talking about movies, music, sports, and families. I can talk in a friendly manner with all sorts of men that I would never dream of going out with, usually because they don't set off sparks in my brain. (For me, it's a certain kind of mentality that's attractive, not looks beyond minimum requirements for cleanliness.)
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