Reply #103: I understand that.

[idgiehkt]

I guess it does depend on the value of the item to you, but what these folks are doing is illegal. When my grandmother passed recently luckily everything went smoothly as far as what was taken...there was not much of value and my granny started giving her most valuable possessions away to the people she wanted to have them about 5 years before her death, so by the time she did pass there was very little of value left. It was a very wise thing that she did and if it looks like I might actually die of old age one day if I have anything valuable I might just do that. Also, my grandmother put a caveat in her will that if anyone contests the will...something like no one will get their share, or that person won't get their share or something...enough to make everyone pretty much behave, at least among immediate family.