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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-24-06 01:36 AM
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70. Dude, only you are your wife can sort this out!
There is always ALWAYS a reason someone cheats on their partner/wife/husband/etc. That reason could be something like the lack of intimacy at home, not a very active sex life, not a great sex life, etc, and no one but your wife knows why she felt the need to seek sex elsewhere.

Your best bet would be actually sitting and talking with your wife about all of this, and finding out exactly why she felt the need to do this. Once that reason is out in the open between the two of you, together you both can work on fixing whatever the actual problem is.

The worst thing you can do is tell her it is ok, not hide it, and basically handing her an open ticket to continue without sorting out the reason behind it. Letting that happen is a sure fire way of having this happen again and again.

I wish you luck, and am so sorry you are going through this.
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