Reply #288: I know. Michael Jackson.

[Jamastiene]

Found innocent but permanently stained in some people's eyes. Don't worry about it. If you are innocent, you are innocent. If it comes up, stand up and say you are innocent in completely open terms. In other words, look whoever accuses you right in the eye and tell them you are innocent. Innocence usually does prevail in the end.

My situation is different but does involve reputation and how people view me in my hometown. I live in an area that is dominated by red voting types, the worst of the bunch too. I am out gay here and it really pisses some people off. I suffered for years with abuse and hate. Still do. I just live my life. I don't talk about it with hateful types. Only my therapist and some very compassionate DU'ers have a clue just how bad it has gotten for me over the years. I just live now. If it comes up, I just tell people my private life is none of their business.

Your situation sounds different, so in your case, maybe just try the direct and straight up approach of reiterating your innocence. Tell them to put up some evidence or shut up or else, lawyer time... That may help. Hope so.

I don't know who you are, but if you are Michael Jackson, please PM me. I have song lyrics you would sound great singing. I like your music a lot, genius, but maybe stay away from children so you can't be accused any more. Enjoy your life. I'm an adult who likes to play games and have fun too. I was never allowed to be a kid when I was a kid. I was always expected to be responsible and act right, whatever that means. Very strict upbringing. I can relate. Your music is great, btw. My favorite is still a toss up between Thriller and the Free Willy theme song. :hi: :D

If you are not Michael Jackson, well, the advice about keeping your innocence on the table, out in the open, and out in front of you still should work, I think. :shrug: