Reply #154: I've done a lot of volunteer work at a homeless shelter..

[SiobhanClancy]

here in Boston. I can attest to the fact that homeless people are a very diverse group. Within the last month I have met two women who were laid off and unable to pay their rent,several battered women who were unable to find any other housing, a man who is supporting his children but unable to afford a room for himself,as well as a number of people working in low-paying jobs who are trying to find housing. Yes,there are also a number of alcholics/addicts,too and quite a few who are mentally ill. Regardless of the circumstances,they are sent out early in the morning and must return by 6 PM or they will lose their beds. If the temperature drops below 18 degrees,they are allowed to stay in. If they violate any of a number of rules,they can be evicted immediately. This could be something as simple as disagreeing with a staff member. The staff are a diverse group,too. Some are compassionate and able,many others are quite poorly qualified for their positions. One of the evening supervisors was recently fired for misconduct with female "guests"..which is what they are called. "Guests" who are on perscription drugs,which must be locked up in the office,often have the medicine stolen by the staff. This is considered one of the better shelters in the city,and yet it is a very degrading and dehumanizing place.
I give what I can to the homeless when I am asked...granted,some will buy alcohol/drugs with it. Many others may just buy a cup of coffee or a sandwich,which enables them to have a place to sit for a while and feel like part of the human race. I'm not so sure that I wouldn't turn to the drink if I found myself in such circumstances. Even more than giving money,simply speaking to people and recognizing them as fellow humans is the least we all can do.