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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-22-03 11:42 AM
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14. Give yourself permission to "let her go"...
Toxic parents do happen (I had TWO of them), and you cannot let it eat you up.. You will feel better if you just "graduate" from her existence.. You will have to accept that she will not take it well, but it's what YOU have to do to feel good about yourself..

Write her a LONG letter.. spill it all out... and then DON'T mail it..

When she contacts you, just accept it as you would from a casual acquaintance..

It's hard at first, but sometimes it's what will save your life :)
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