Any person who believes that s/he's being rejected by multiple people because s/he's "too nice" or really has no clue about why, can easily get some really useful feedback. Just sit down with your best platonic friend of the opposite gender (if you're heterosexual) and ask him or her for an assessment of the situation. Tell your friend to be kind but honest with you so that you can work on self-improvement and avoid some future hurt. Ask more than one if you want to.
I'll bet many "nice guys" will be stunned to find out what's really going on. And I'll bet it has nothing to do with being nice.
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