Reply #20: i'm so sorry

[Bluerthanblue]

for the pain you've been through... that we all go through.... because (i firmly believe) we have not been shown love- unconditional, un-earned love, as babies, and young children, when we learn 'who' we are- or 'what to expect'-

How much hurt can be done, in so short a time, and continued for generations, unless, and until, we have the fortune to 'see' from a distance.... inside each one of us, is a child that has either learned that they 'are enough' just by 'being'- or that 'they will never be enough'- no matter how hard they try- and spend the rest of their lives proving that judgement true. In the oddest, and sometimes most hurtful ways.

So sad a world- when we learn (and i'm still working on it) that we are and always HAVE been 'loveable' all along- whether that was affirmed or not by those whose role it was to 'nurture' us- we become free to love others, in ways that bring out the best in them, and we all grow healthier - in the giving, and recieving.

i wish you, and all the wounded souls of this world, much love, healing, and peace-

blu