Reply #26: Well Duckie ~ it's like this

[In_The_Wind]

Yes married people do color outside the box.

Polyamory couples are growing. Some of them actually preform a ceremony to bring a third party into their polyamory family. BUT most people who are poly insist in honesty between all parties. Being poly is about extending a loving family not about cheating.

The fact that the other man's wife doesn't know about the situation is what makes it unacceptable. It will in all probability blow up in their faces.

honesty is the way only way to avoid causing unnecessary pain