Reply #22: I had the same exact problem

[AuntiBush]

To a tee! And, it was a sister-in-law. It places one in an awkward position to say the least.

Have you tried slowly inching away from her so much? Maybe not go shopping w/her quite as often... when she drops by announce you were just heading up to take a much needed long (very long) warm bath? Better yet, when in doubt, don't, meaning let her talk and just nod the ole' head in agreement but don't say anything, no muttering at all. That old saying "ignore something and eventually it will go away might be the clincher here."

Wish you luck. Mine got under my skin badly... I eventually weaned myself away from her prodding remarks by slowly doing other things that didn't include her, sadly, I still miss her though.