Reply #117: Having also been raped, and having worked as a rape victim's advocate,

[WildClarySage]

I stand by my original post. I'm sorry if you are offended. But it is true that while the vast majority of rape is about anger and control, there are some real sickos out there who find sexual gratification in violence. The appearance of the victim, in either case, is irrelevant and I did not intend to imply otherwise.