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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-18-05 10:45 PM
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3. I agree with the above posters regarding the timing of discussing this
in a heartfelt manner: do it at a time when you are not about ready to jump into bed together, so there's none of the potential emotional entanglement. Lovingly tell her your truth and brainstorm together about different signals she could give you. Engage her support so that she feels a part of the process, instead of being made wrong and feeling rejected. Make sure she knows it's not about her, it's about YOU and what you need. If she cares about you, which I'm sure she does, she'll be open to working it out.

Good luck and you are, indeed, a lucky man to have such a frisky woman at your side.

Blessings,
Shine
:pals:
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