Reply #82: not sneering, a sincere offer to ease your concerns

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i am sure whatever you gave was much appreciated...and it makes me happy that it won't break me.

tell me...why is how the fundraising was done so important to you? i fail to grasp the significance of that...considering:

1) andy was and is seriously ill
2) he did have the surgery
3) he is still in the hospital

frankly...i don't get the "concern" about the fundraising, given all the above. it seems like you'd be more concerned about andy's health, than worrying about the bookkeeping for donations. i've been here since the beginning, and i have donated to other informal fundraisers here, mostly to help people keep a roof over their heads. i don't think anyone even asked how much money was raised, or cared where it went.

if you think of this as simply giving to an invididual, which is what you did, then perhaps that should ease you mind...it was just a gift. do you ever require any proof of how the gift was used for other gifts you give?
well...i'm off work. pm me if i can help ease you concerns by refunding your donation. peace.