Reply #14: It's a whole lot of things but it has a lot to do with sex and fear of it

[lukasahero]

It's fear of the feminine and feminization.

It's fear in some men of their own sexual response to their imaginings (they give more thought to what goes on in other people's bedrooms than any group I have ever known).

It's fear a loss of power - if there's no difference between men and women as demonstrated by the "family structure" and who's allowed to love whom" then the traditional "male" role loses it's value in society.

Anyone ever wonder at the contradiction that "every guy's fantasy" is two women getting it on but homosexuality is an enormous fear? Has that ever added up right to anyone else?