Reply #21: Thanks Mari, for the link.

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I'm going to send the link to my younger brother. The death of his best friend (brother in law) has been difficult at best for him to come to terms with. I hope this place may help him to know that he is not alone in his deep grief.

He said to me recently that he has to believe that we are doing the right thing in Iraq otherwise Jay's death will be unbearable for him. He won't hear anything else.

I know you have a son in Iraq that's having a difficult time. I hope he comes home to you safe, the sooner the better.