Reply #101: much sense

[StandWatie]

it's just that trying to make rules for sex gives me the creeps in the first place and in the second I think it's just a waste of time.

Everyone knows that no does not always mean no, men like to hear no sometimes so they can think they just shattered resistence with sheer sexual power and women say it sometimes because they want to think they are so irresistable it's impossible. I think there is a certain D/S component to it and maybe everyone in the world should just do what that crowd does and come up with a safe word besides "no", it doesn't seem any sillier to me than trying to come up with a number of times you have to hear no before you get the point. I know that's why the "no means no" people like zero, it's because you avoid having to make a decision that stupid but zero is a number also.