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Auntie Pinko
September
12, 2003
Dear
Readers: Two questions came in recently that provoked Auntie
to thought. While my conclusions may disappoint some, I hope
that you will find them as thought-provoking as I find so
many of your questions!
Dear Auntie Pinko,
I'm so sick of these fascist NeoCons. Can't some of us
become NeoLiberals and start shouting and smearing right back?
I have connections in the media (I'm a director and producer
in a... uh... a certain industry involving bright lights and
people who pretend to be other people for a living, let's
say) and I can lexis-nexis (search the subscription-only news
database) these modern brownshirts like Ann Coulter, Sean
Hannity, Rush and Boortz, and drag up some interesting excrement
from their pasts. I say we should do it. Fight fire with fire,
I say.
I'm more a Yippie than a Hippie and it twists my panties
in a knot to see us good Democrats backed into a corner weaseling
out and using soft words just because some red-faced bigot
bully wants to play dirty.
I'm good at research, good on camera, and can play dirty
too. I say there needs to be NeoLibs. What does Auntie Pinko
think?
Heather,
Atlanta, GA
Dear Auntie Pinko,
What on earth can I do when overwhelmed by a swell of
anger when I'm driving along the road and see a big, honkin'
planet-trashing SUV with a bumper sticker of the familiar
white-on-green type that says, "Wellstone's dead. Get over
it."
Of course, bricks, baseball bats, chain saws, and spray
paint all come to mind, but those would likely land me in
jail. I'm considering laying in a supply of "MLK is dead.
Get over it." stickers to place on such vehicles, but how
would I then lure the driver into North Minneapolis?
The vehicle was parked, and stopping to wait for the
owner to show up and scream at him was more than a passing
thought. Asking if this is the face of compassionate conservatism
would have certainly resulted in a teaching moment for us
both, but having my face punched in by someone stupid enough
to put one of those on his SUV wasn't on my agenda for the
day.
So I guess the question is this: What on earth can we
do when these people just go over the top? When they make
fun of the French heatwave deaths? When they question the
loyalty of the soldiers in Iraq who complain about the lack
of basic coordination efforts? When they think that a bumper
sticker like this is even remotely acceptable? Ignoring such
behavior doesn't work, we know that.
But what can we do with these cretins?
Angry in St. Paul
Dear Heather, Dear Angry, Dear Readers,
Auntie Pinko is no stranger to the sensation of boiling
with rage at the well-orchestrated, professionally-choreographed
slime-slinging exercises of our political parties. And, being
a Democrat, I will admit to my biases in how I perceive them
� especially since Mr. Gingrich's memo to his GOP colleagues
during the 1992 campaign, urging them to refer to opponents
using the words "sick, pathetic, bizarre, twisted and
traitor."
But Democrats are no stranger to mud chucking and sleazy
campaign tactics, either. Which brings me to my point � while
we are no strangers to the gutter, it's not our 'street' right
now. Obviously, the GOP currently 'owns' this turf. So the
question becomes, do we try to take it back from them?
Auntie Pinko rather hopes not.
And right now I know that some of my readers are saying
substantially the same thing as Angry in St. Paul: "Ignoring
such behavior doesn�t work, we know that."
It certainly feels that way. And it's true, ignoring someone's
childishness rarely produces an instant behavior change in
a positive direction.
Perhaps I am too optimistic, but I think that many, perhaps
even most Americans � including those who may not agree with
my political ideology � still have some sense of what it takes
to make a democratic government of a vast, complex, diverse
country work. Most of us do admire someone who shows they
aren't afraid to fight back when the cause is worthwhile,
and some of us even appreciate a moderately clever trick and
a pragmatic willingness to bend the strict interpretation
of truth in the interest of achieving a worthy goal.
But I also think that while we have a certain tolerance
for the grittier side of politics, and even a perverse fascination
with 'how low can they go,' ultimately we know that effective
democratic government is founded on compromise. I believe
most of my neighbors respect people who rely on reason more
than those who appeal to simplistic, divisive emotional hot
buttons. We are perhaps too tolerant of those who abuse their
freedom of speech, too lazy to make much effort to stop the
distortions and folly, too willing to let others be the first
to say "enough!"
But sooner or later, a threshold is crossed. And when that
happens, the ones we turn to for leadership are not the noisiest,
nastiest ones. Rather, we turn to those who have steadfastly
stuck to reason, truth, and the better impulses of human nature.
We look to the leaders who will lead all of us, not just the
ones we agree with the most. We know that there are far too
many of our neighbors who differ from us, and an effective
leader must lead everyone.
In some ways, even while the mean-spirited, immature rantings
of the shrieking heads on radio and television make my blood
boil, I look at it as a sign of progress. The more sickening
they are, the sooner my neighbors will indeed get sick of
them. In the mean time, if my Democratic colleagues are standing
firmly for their principles, using reason, and emphasizing
the positive foundations of our ideology, we will still be
there long after today's hate-spewing preachers have gone
the way of Father Coughlin, long after the jingoistic politicians
have suffered Senator McCarthy's fate.
So, what can we do? Fight lies and distortions with facts.
Fight hate and jingoism with reason and hope. Fight mean-spiritedness
and sleaziness with dignity and compassion. Never shrink from
a fight, but fight on our terms, even if it means being temporarily
drowned out by the rantings of paranoia.
Don't forget the power of humor as a weapon. Fight nasty
humor that makes fun of others with genuine irony. Cultivate
an appreciation of human frailty that laughs with, not at.
Let your jokes expose folly, without the vicious excoriation
of the fools (for we are all fools somewhere, sometime.) Don't
fear to laugh at yourself.
And above all, ask yourself the question Auntie Pinko has
been asking myself lately, Heather and Angry:
"What would Wellstone do?"
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