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I know this will be an unpopular view but Drale Jun 2012 #1
And yet some people still choose to deliberately make false claims of correlation... TheWraith Jul 2012 #102
I think it could have an effect on influenceing under age child sexual abusers though. JNathanK Jul 2012 #130
Considering that there's absolutely no evidence to support such an idea... TheWraith Jul 2012 #136
GREAT post! bettydavis Jun 2012 #2
I found this shocking: CrispyQ Jun 2012 #3
not only that article that was very informative, videos of what happens behind the scene of porn seabeyond Jul 2012 #8
Most men who cheat, abuse women, divorce their wives, etc watch porn 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #4
i understand men who are pro porn have a strong NEED to insist, demand, repeat that ALL men seabeyond Jul 2012 #5
"the simple fact, with easy access to porn, it has done damage to relationships and marriages. " 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #6
google. i have been shown by pro porn people, regardless of the number of links, studies and facts seabeyond Jul 2012 #7
Awesome 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #9
backatcha.... prove you really are not interested in facts and do nothing to educate yourself. nt seabeyond Jul 2012 #11
A) the onus of proof 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #12
again, proving you really are not interested in facts and reality or the subject at hand. nt seabeyond Jul 2012 #13
Asking you to provide evidence proves I don't care about facts? 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #15
i know the game. i am not playing. anyone that is actually interested would become informed. seabeyond Jul 2012 #17
Could you address the conundrum I presented in post 16 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #18
Citation needed: CrispyQ Jul 2012 #10
. . . 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #14
I have articles, too. CrispyQ Jul 2012 #22
One is a link to a book review 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #48
I have no problem agreeing with pretty much all that Major Nikon Jul 2012 #120
This is where I have trouble too MadrasT Jul 2012 #131
porn is the problem. the cause seabeyond Jul 2012 #139
I agree it could be a symptom as much as a cause. redqueen Jul 2012 #135
I'm not sure you understand the reason for porn Major Nikon Jul 2012 #137
the romance novels you talk about are prior to 80's. you would be incorrect about the genre today. seabeyond Jul 2012 #138
Hardly Major Nikon Jul 2012 #140
bah hahaah. that is your proof? cover descriptions? seabeyond Jul 2012 #141
Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups Major Nikon Jul 2012 #143
and look how popular they are. pretty resoundly rejected and called out for it. seabeyond Jul 2012 #146
I never claimed they were bestsellers Major Nikon Jul 2012 #147
whatever seabeyond Jul 2012 #149
Address your arguments with seabeyond to seabeyond. redqueen Jul 2012 #142
I did. You replied to me replying to her. Major Nikon Jul 2012 #144
I addressed your points, you went off about what someone else said. redqueen Jul 2012 #148
and this is why there are posters i never converse with on this subject, anymore. nor discuss it on seabeyond Jul 2012 #150
Yeah, I've been screwing up this week. nt redqueen Jul 2012 #154
it does nothing but feed what they are looking for. seabeyond Jul 2012 #155
Personal attacks are so classy Major Nikon Jul 2012 #153
87% of men who molest children view porn, 87% of average men view porn 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #16
still flogging those right wing fundy sources, eh sea? opiate69 Jul 2012 #19
BDSM’s Rape Problem And How To Fix It: Summary Of “There’s A War On” Series seabeyond Jul 2012 #24
"less than 10% of the genrral population" opiate69 Jul 2012 #28
you so effectively ignore an issue. no surprise there. meh... rape, pffft seabeyond Jul 2012 #29
you have no idea what I do or don`t do concerning issues in my community. opiate69 Jul 2012 #30
i absolutely recognized that the woman writing the article is from the community. why i thought seabeyond Jul 2012 #32
really? opiate69 Jul 2012 #33
Why is it a rw fundy source? Hatchling Jul 2012 #36
i had a list of police officers quoted in various newspapers that rape was downgraded in their city seabeyond Jul 2012 #37
I commented on them Major Nikon Jul 2012 #145
Lighted Candle Society.... opiate69 Jul 2012 #39
i the name of honesty, i see you are making it clear i did not post any of this crap seabeyond Jul 2012 #40
really???? you didn`t???? opiate69 Jul 2012 #41
amazing. truly, amazing. good way to argue the issues. i give you a site from a woman within your seabeyond Jul 2012 #43
I didn`t dismiss that article... opiate69 Jul 2012 #47
you didnt prove anything was faulty. you did not like the source. seabeyond Jul 2012 #58
are you actually reading the words that I`m typing opiate69 Jul 2012 #69
One person? redqueen Jul 2012 #74
do you even know what we`re discussing? opiate69 Jul 2012 #75
No, I magically lost the ability to read when I looked at your posts. redqueen Jul 2012 #78
Its my assertion that she`s the only one whom seabeyond cited. opiate69 Jul 2012 #80
For you to say that Kitty is the only person calling out the rape and abuse in the bdsm scene redqueen Jul 2012 #82
it is not about knowing less about his community but willingness to deny seabeyond Jul 2012 #84
Some people have their heads in the sand MadrasT Jul 2012 #87
Yes that has been SOP in that community for ages. redqueen Jul 2012 #89
and again with the reading comprehension fail.. opiate69 Jul 2012 #88
"... based on one person`s anecdotal testimony." redqueen Jul 2012 #91
yes.. one person cited.. opiate69 Jul 2012 #92
If you're aware of what's been going on in the community, redqueen Jul 2012 #94
trust me, I dont... opiate69 Jul 2012 #100
Obviously, you do. redqueen Jul 2012 #103
i dont know redqueen. when someone presents me with info people are being harmed, even women, seabeyond Jul 2012 #105
That's how progressives usually react. redqueen Jul 2012 #109
Yet here on our lovely site, MadrasT Jul 2012 #111
+1. nt seabeyond Jul 2012 #113
Wow. redqueen Jul 2012 #114
yes... and those men were equally rejected. nt seabeyond Jul 2012 #112
lol... opiate69 Jul 2012 #106
lol indeed redqueen Jul 2012 #110
Well as long as you think you're qualified to educate folk... opiate69 Jul 2012 #116
took that stat out and put in another. there is plenty. you can keep pretending everything is seabeyond Jul 2012 #44
if you want people to stop "dismissing stuff" opiate69 Jul 2012 #52
Evangelicals are the final authority on porn 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #49
yep.. although in her defense she did remove that particular citation.... opiate69 Jul 2012 #54
Ah well removing it means it never happened 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #64
Heh.. well, I`m sure the good Drs Reisman and Hilton will rise again! opiate69 Jul 2012 #72
I think another interesting question is.... Little Star Jul 2012 #20
I would expect honesty, yes. redqueen Jul 2012 #21
Amen! Little Star Jul 2012 #23
It's really sad to think of how many women are told they're just being jealous or controlling. redqueen Jul 2012 #25
How Pornography Impacts Marriage and Family Life seabeyond Jul 2012 #26
Out of curiosity, if the guy in a relationship 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #51
My point is that honesty is the best policy, always..... Little Star Jul 2012 #83
the correlation must be their porn is a dear friend? nt seabeyond Jul 2012 #86
pretending it doesnt effect us or relationships seabeyond Jul 2012 #27
Violence Against Women on the Internet seabeyond Jul 2012 #31
Related. redqueen Jul 2012 #34
Or heck, why not start at the beginning... redqueen Jul 2012 #35
The Difference Between Huffing Dong and Flipping Burgers seabeyond Jul 2012 #38
I know. To see rapetastic images and then blithely dismiss them... redqueen Jul 2012 #42
I want jerking off to be quicker and easier... more than I’m jerking off to might be being raped seabeyond Jul 2012 #45
and be damn careful you do not use a neurologist that has a study with stats seabeyond Jul 2012 #46
She also has a series on why she hates men 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #50
link? nt redqueen Jul 2012 #53
Ask and ye shall receive: 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #55
Comprehending what you read is a core part of literacy Scootaloo Jul 2012 #56
An easy enough retort 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #60
Well, no, the article is pretty obviously meant as snark Scootaloo Jul 2012 #107
"4th law" Thanks for your good efforts to enlighten the original poster to the process of ladjf Jul 2012 #57
Yeah, it's pretty sad what a religious-like adherence to some ideology 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #62
Well, we are actually discussing the fundamental problem with our political system, which is that ladjf Jul 2012 #98
you need some reading comprehension lessons. nt boston bean Jul 2012 #59
Could you explain which part of this quote: 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #61
Post removed Post removed Jul 2012 #65
Yes, in her mult-page screed against all mankind 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #67
We do not hate men in this group. boston bean Jul 2012 #68
... redqueen Jul 2012 #63
One paragraph defending herself against any retaliation 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #66
Wow. redqueen Jul 2012 #71
That is either satire or the writer is just a judgemental prick, is there a name of the author? snooper2 Jul 2012 #70
I wonder why the porn obsessed feel the need to come in here. redqueen Jul 2012 #73
gotta defend the porn. seabeyond Jul 2012 #76
copying without citing makes the baby jesus cry, sea. opiate69 Jul 2012 #77
look, when you are given sites that have cuts from porn films where women are being abused and you seabeyond Jul 2012 #79
again with attributing words I never said to me.... opiate69 Jul 2012 #81
How do you feel about Sandra Fluke? Is she reputable enough? boston bean Jul 2012 #85
If she had good science to back her up... opiate69 Jul 2012 #90
ya, i know. nothing will work for you.... seabeyond Jul 2012 #93
She feels the same way about porn that many feminists do. boston bean Jul 2012 #95
I contend it's the vast majority of women. redqueen Jul 2012 #96
agreed. nt seabeyond Jul 2012 #97
"feels"?? so she has an opinion on it... bully for her. opiate69 Jul 2012 #99
right, it's an opinion. you are entitled to yours others are just as entitled to theirs. boston bean Jul 2012 #101
of course she`s entitled to it... opiate69 Jul 2012 #104
No you are suppose to respect others opinions, right? boston bean Jul 2012 #108
We're supposed to respect other peoples opinions?? opiate69 Jul 2012 #115
This is a protected room. PassingFair Jul 2012 #117
Well..... opiate69 Jul 2012 #118
"We're supposed to respect other peoples opinions?" PassingFair Jul 2012 #119
I steadfastly refuse to respect the opinions of people like opiate69 Jul 2012 #121
quotes from policemen from legitimate newspapers across the country is not seabeyond Jul 2012 #122
My theory on porn: gaspee Jul 2012 #123
The loudest porn defenders are the ones suffering from the largest degree of cognitive dissonance. MadrasT Jul 2012 #124
Seems crystal clear to me. redqueen Jul 2012 #125
i think you have it right on. the struggle and fight to be the three monkeys. no hear, see, speak. seabeyond Jul 2012 #126
Porn is bad because its a comoditization of something sacred. JNathanK Jul 2012 #132
I can't agree with that. MadrasT Jul 2012 #133
If sex isn't particularly sacred though, I wonder why there's so much regret over it. JNathanK Jul 2012 #134
I think that a problem is that porn is becoming a type of pop culture Nikia Jul 2012 #127
nikia, you are absolutely correct. seabeyond Jul 2012 #128
Flimsy excuse, or actual influence? redqueen Jul 2012 #129
Its impossible to say yes or not based on the info in that story Drale Jul 2012 #151
and every girls wants to see a naked MAN, not boy, too. seabeyond Jul 2012 #152
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