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boston bean

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Mon Nov 4, 2013, 03:31 PM Nov 2013

How are you dealing...... [View all]

Over the weekend, I have made many attempts and pleas to not only admin, but members of this site to try to get them to see what a terrible policy this was...... putting womens rights up for debate. I've been supported, I've been snarled at, I've been personally attacked, I've had my words twisted. I'm sure you can all relate.

This morning, my post in ATA had a response. The response was completely lacking any context to the more important of my two questions. I was hoping for some support, some reconsideration, what I got was nada. It wasn't important enough to even bother writing a response to, I guess. To be clear, I wasn't asking for a banning of a long term poster, I was looking for admin to make it known that anti choice commentary wasn't welcome here (hell maybe put it in the TOS??). I was looking for some top down leadership protecting womens rights in this little corner of the web. I am sorry to report that was too much to ask. Instead in another ATA thread the answer remained the same, as it was in the first response that brought about this issue. You can go out to ATA to read. I'm not linking them here.

The clear message as far as I can tell is that posters can post anti choice opinions on DU. Juries can maybe hide the post, admin might or might not decide to take any action.

Anti choice obviously does not rise to the level of racist comments, or anti gay marriage comments here on DU.... I truly believe admin does not see the similarity. Womens rights are not as important?? I don't know the exact reason for this. Whether it is cluelessness or if it is something more I don't know. After all these years, I want to believe cluelessness. If it is cluelessness, the response/non response to a respectful question in ATA was extremely disappointing. I don't understand the motivation for it. I found it to be rude and responded in kind.

So, how are you dealing with this information? I feel like I've been hit over the head with a bunch of bricks. I'm confused by this, I'm in almost a state of denial that the above is the case..... It feels like I've been shocked and I'm not quite ready to raise the white flag.... is it futile?

I would hope a jury would let me have this say with my sisters here in this group, looking for some support.

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How are you dealing...... [View all] boston bean Nov 2013 OP
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #1
I know how you are feeling. boston bean Nov 2013 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #3
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #5
I hope you begin to feel better soon! boston bean Nov 2013 #6
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #7
no, they take things twist them to suit their pov. boston bean Nov 2013 #9
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #10
What justification BainsBane Nov 2013 #11
Here is the message I received: LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #14
Once again the problem is not misogyny BainsBane Nov 2013 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #17
exactly. and i know who alerted. she has been on quite a tear with feminists the last few days seabeyond Nov 2013 #27
I find it sad BainsBane Nov 2013 #34
steinam explains the best. seabeyond Nov 2013 #37
I gotta disagree with the alerter. If a man had said it, boston bean Nov 2013 #36
yes. but, i have to ask, when it is so clear the hides we receive by other duers on the board, seabeyond Nov 2013 #38
Women's issues are put to the forefront when it benefits the Party NuclearDem Nov 2013 #4
you are right on nuclear and our board reflects this. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #28
I am not surprised at all. Whisp Nov 2013 #8
I requested clarification in ATA and got it ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #12
We've had each womens group on DU ask him to amend TOS to include boston bean Nov 2013 #13
I don't understand it either ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #18
I actually have a cynical view of why some BainsBane Nov 2013 #19
That's actually true, not cynical ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #22
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #24
Exactly ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #46
I have seen very few anti-choice comments on DU BainsBane Nov 2013 #16
Like forced vasectomies ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #20
I raised that with one BainsBane Nov 2013 #21
it's simple, imho BainsBaine boston bean Nov 2013 #25
i remember one conversation he said he had women saying the sexist bulshit on du was not sexist. seabeyond Nov 2013 #33
To me they are no different from male misogynists BainsBane Nov 2013 #39
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #23
as someone said. it is across the board. a backlash. google feminist should be.... killed, seabeyond Nov 2013 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #26
love you too woman, and will miss you. hope to see you back. if we are here, lol. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #30
... ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #48
over the last couple years, what i see, as a poster said, is we are merely tolerated. seabeyond Nov 2013 #31
There are a lot of comments about the fact that feminists are not welcomed here. Squinch Nov 2013 #32
BOOM redqueen Nov 2013 #41
btw, it does not matter for a feminist if it is on du, on the street, in the grocery store, at work, seabeyond Nov 2013 #35
Insert any form or racial or religious bigotry in the place of women's reproductive rights... LanternWaste Nov 2013 #40
your post makes me want to ask... why? with women. why is it always with women.???? why? seabeyond Nov 2013 #42
we have a 38 post poster out in GD right now, playing cutesie boston bean Nov 2013 #43
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #44
the green light. that is what administration so conveniently are ignoring that is our reality. seabeyond Nov 2013 #45
Skinner put the crack in the dam, Whisp Nov 2013 #58
i have certainly seen what is acceptable and not in the last couple days in du, with us discussing. seabeyond Nov 2013 #59
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #60
You just made me lol! boston bean Nov 2013 #61
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #62
oh... must of missed that one. ya. trolling and our guys. ya. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #66
yup. admittedly he says, the majority of women are in a horrible position, BUT... what about the seabeyond Nov 2013 #63
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #65
LL the thought has crossed my mind more than once. boston bean Nov 2013 #67
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #68
oh and grown men buying schoolgirls soiled underwear from vending machines. lol, without humor. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #70
ya. i saw it on the stupid ass giesha thread. they though redq and i had a problem with thread. seabeyond Nov 2013 #69
i was all into the reply and didnt address your point. i stay OUT of prostitute threads. and lookie seabeyond Nov 2013 #64
Only temporarily, I hope LanternWaste Nov 2013 #53
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #54
but he is right too. take a break. then come back strong. i did. it felt good. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #55
i think what you will see is the better self in gd. post after post having heard the call seabeyond Nov 2013 #47
The only thing that is surprising to me is that this appears to be a news flash Sheldon Cooper Nov 2013 #49
Sheldon, I have felt it prior but with issue it is much more profound. boston bean Nov 2013 #50
oh, no one is suprised. but, we are speaking out loud and voicing how we feel. but no.... seabeyond Nov 2013 #51
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #52
nah... lol. i have invested too much time. and too many people appreciate/value what i say. seabeyond Nov 2013 #56
Ok Sea ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #57
isnt it amazing ism. and i think seabeyond Nov 2013 #71
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #72
they get close enough to just that in enough posts over the years. yes. that was a bummer for the seabeyond Nov 2013 #73
This message was self-deleted by its author LiberalLoner Nov 2013 #74
i was surprised. but, it was a given he was a returnee. i think we recently had a "oldman" seabeyond Nov 2013 #75
I'd be pretty sure it's cluelessness Prophet 451 Nov 2013 #76
I'm on FB under the name "Marcus Junius Brutus" ... Deep13 Nov 2013 #77
Same old, same old Warpy Nov 2013 #78
I've just now seen both posts. I have no words... hlthe2b Nov 2013 #79
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