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Response to Freddie (Reply #5)

Tue Feb 26, 2013, 08:49 AM

7. I agree. And the sampling was taken from college kids who hook up with varying degrees of

regularity. I did not understand what it took to bring my wife to orgasm until much later in life. I would say neither she nor I were mature enough to explore it until then. It takes maturity and a level of familiarity for a comfort level to develop.

Yes, I could pump out an ejaculate sample nearly any time I choose during my early twenties, but upon reflection that's about how satisfying the sex probably was in comparison to what it is approaching 40.

I think shallow, non-committed sex is just that. Shallow. A real beneficial understanding of our own and our partner's needs is derived from experience, comfort level and communication. I know someone is gonna show up here and talk about some random roll in the sack with a stranger as the best sex of their lives, but I think for most people that's not more than fantasy.

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