History of Feminism
In reply to the discussion: I use to believe/think that men could be feminists [View all]jollyreaper2112
(1,941 posts)Is that it sets up an antagonized playing field. While I might be a beneficiary of white priviledge (even the most broke-ass poor person in this country has it better than most of the world and is a beneficiary of 'murican priviledge), it's not the sort of thing that's easy to appreciate from the inside, especially with all the examples of those who have got it far better than me and have advanced far more.
So, the average white male schlub doesn't really feel like lord and master. White dudes are the majority CEO's of all the biggest companies, dominate in congress, hold most of the wealth? They ain't cutting us a check as a member of the club. It doesn't feel good to be lumped in with that sort when the stereotypes are flying.
Can people mistake themselves for being with the good guys while actually still contributing to the problem? Of course. But people who are being attacked will get defensive and any chance for meaningful dialogue is ruined.