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RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
22. When I go to a funeral, which is usually religious,
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 08:45 PM
Apr 2013

I just bow my head when it gets to all the prayers.

I Didn't Realize One Had to Be Invited to Their Grandmother's Funeral dballance Apr 2013 #1
I know that you are right. bravenak Apr 2013 #6
"Slavemasters' Religion" I Love That dballance Apr 2013 #8
Thank you for understanding what I meant by that. bravenak Apr 2013 #12
If you want to go, then go. Jokerman Apr 2013 #11
Tough call. I think your decision might hinge on your snappyturtle Apr 2013 #2
"I am not being invited to Gramma's funeral." CrispyQ Apr 2013 #3
They live in California and I live in Alaska. bravenak Apr 2013 #7
I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. CrispyQ Apr 2013 #10
Thank you. bravenak Apr 2013 #14
"Learning the science behind it helped." CrispyQ Apr 2013 #21
If it is possible, and you want to be there, get there now. Curmudgeoness Apr 2013 #17
There has to be a substitute of some kind libodem Apr 2013 #4
Since when is an invite required for a funeral? cynatnite Apr 2013 #5
Wakes worked for my family. Warren Stupidity Apr 2013 #9
The 20 percent of me that is Irish instinctively knew I should be a wake person. bravenak Apr 2013 #13
That's a true Keith Richards funeral! n/t backscatter712 Apr 2013 #16
I read that wakes started up because some people were so drunk, they'd mistake them for dead. Neoma Apr 2013 #15
You don't get invited to a funeral, you show up to honor the person Warpy Apr 2013 #18
Instead of praying, I don't pray. Iggo Apr 2013 #19
Great thread and welcome Bravenak! JNelson6563 Apr 2013 #20
Thank you. bravenak Apr 2013 #24
When I go to a funeral, which is usually religious, RebelOne Apr 2013 #22
Welcome and good luck. onager Apr 2013 #23
Thank you. bravenak Apr 2013 #25
I've been to a lot of funerals of religious family members. defacto7 Apr 2013 #26
In addition to the thoughts given above... progressoid Apr 2013 #27
Some of this is so inculcated into our culture that there isn't a good option. AtheistCrusader Apr 2013 #28
Do call to let her know that you are thinking of them. LiberalAndProud Apr 2013 #29
Resurrected from my journal...when my brother died in 2011 PassingFair Apr 2013 #30
Now that is awesome! bravenak Apr 2013 #31
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