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Manifestor_of_Light

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10. We never converted, never joined, never paid dues.
Fri Oct 12, 2012, 04:30 PM
Oct 2012

We started calling it the Houston Congregation for Rich Jews since their initials were HCRJ.



We both still consider ourselves UUs. Although we are too far from any UU fellowship or church to consider attending.

There was a fellowship in Houston where I was the music director. The old people who founded it fired the half-time minister and decided to make it totally lay-led. This disgusted me & I thought of it as amateur hour. I started a choir and was told by one of the board members that "This congregation is only interested in instrumental music.' The regular piano player held the power, not me. She spent the money in the music fund without telling me, before I spent it for sheet music. The board couldn't understand why I was furious over that.
I was the piano player in the summer, unpaid of course.

She also got the board to buy a very nice grand piano when I couldn't even get a choir together--they griped about "it's the wrong night of the week" or some such bullshit.

I gave up and resigned. I hate church/synagogue politics.


Nobody spoke to me but a Jew for Jesus. Twice. [View all] Manifestor_of_Light Aug 2012 OP
It sucks. Betsy Ross Aug 2012 #1
We have ..... meti57b Aug 2012 #2
one conservative, one reform. Manifestor_of_Light Aug 2012 #3
Have you thought about letting THEM know? Behind the Aegis Aug 2012 #4
I wrote letters to both temples. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #8
That is unfortunate Meshuga Oct 2012 #5
My spouse wanted to convert the second time, at the Classical Reform synagogue. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #6
I am so sorry for your experience Meshuga Oct 2012 #9
We never converted, never joined, never paid dues. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #10
LOL Meshuga Oct 2012 #11
I want to emphasize that the rabbi was cool. He was not the problem. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #12
That is usually the case Meshuga Oct 2012 #14
I would have made a good Reform Jew but they blew it. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #13
And that is a huge problem with the movement Meshuga Oct 2012 #15
Thanks! High five to ya!! Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #16
A Beit Din is a Jewish court Meshuga Oct 2012 #17
Oh okay!! Cool! Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #18
No that is something else Meshuga Oct 2012 #20
I knew a mikvah is a ritual bath--no stinkin' converts!! Clean ones! Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #22
Thanks so very much for the badly needed humor!! Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #19
No, thank you for the needed humor! :-) Meshuga Oct 2012 #21
The classical reform rabbi did NOT reject me--the Board did. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #7
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