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Ricochet21

(3,794 posts)
3. I took one look at your chart
Thu Dec 20, 2012, 09:16 PM
Dec 2012

In my opinion:

This has NOTHING to do with the co-worker.

You need a better relationship with the PART OF YOU that wants to assert yourself.
That's WHY this is happening. It happens all the time to people here because we are mostly
giving, gentle folks. You are being challenged by Pluto and Saturn at the same time.
Your chart is the chart of an OVER-APPEASER. Appeasing in situations where you don't
really want to. A long, social HABIT.

I firmly believe (this is the content of my next book) that all you have to do IS TO ALLOW YOURSELF
to stand up directly to this person, not angrily or aggressively,

and it will dissappear right away - the problem that is.

Allow yourself to be firm, you're already intelligent. This was God's answer to you.
He answers all of us thru each other.

I don't need to wish you good luck but because this is your answer and I can tell
that you will put it to use right away.

Blessings!
Rick

p.s. Sometimes when a leech has attached itself to you (energy sucker) you may have to use "force" to get rid of it. It's ok to do so.

Dear rb, EVERYONE makes mistakes, every day, elleng Dec 2012 #1
Thank you. rbnyc Dec 2012 #2
I took one look at your chart Ricochet21 Dec 2012 #3
Thank you... rbnyc Dec 2012 #4
I'm so sorry to hear about your Uncle Ricochet21 Dec 2012 #10
O, Man I can so relate to this! kimmerspixelated Dec 2012 #5
I could have written your post. murielm99 Dec 2012 #6
Sometimes we think we have to work ourselves up Tsiyu Dec 2012 #7
thank you... rbnyc Dec 2012 #8
It is my CLEAR experience Ricochet21 Dec 2012 #11
I understand how you feel :) Sweet Freedom Dec 2012 #9
Exactly! SF! Ricochet21 Dec 2012 #12
Thank you Sweet Freedom Dec 2012 #13
Several years ago I had a coworker I was having trouble SheilaT Dec 2012 #14
I love that. rbnyc Dec 2012 #15
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