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Lordquinton

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4. Are the boys allowed to wear suits?

Reply to guillaumeb (Reply #1)

Thu Oct 12, 2017, 05:30 PM

Oct 2017

If so then she's not really in violation. Unless of course it's an intolerant code based on outdated gender roles.

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Church denies First Communion to fashion-loving girl because she wanted to wear a suit [View all] Eugene Oct 2017 OP

From the article: guillaumeb Oct 2017 #1

Are the boys allowed to wear suits? Lordquinton Oct 2017 #4

If the dress regulations are specific, you might research it. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #5

And you again didn't speak to my question Lordquinton Oct 2017 #6

Your question has no relevance to the issue. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #24

Yes, I ignored your deflections Lordquinton Oct 2017 #41

Your questions are the deflections. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #49

Nice retort Lordquinton Oct 2017 #68

Possibly because you do not wish to admit that the institution is correct? guillaumeb Oct 2017 #71

So they are correct in their intolerance? Lordquinton Oct 2017 #72

Still avoiding the issue? guillaumeb Oct 2017 #73

You first Lordquinton Oct 2017 #98

Gender based dress code .............. BAD Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #8

Argue with the institution. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #25

the discussion was about narrow minded catholics Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #28

The discussion was about many things. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #29

If thnking that a fine young girl should be allowed to wear a nice white pants suit Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #33

You missed the actual point. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #34

No I didn't Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #39

Organizations have a legal right to set rules. That is the issue. eom guillaumeb Oct 2017 #50

I asked questions, you did not answer them, Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #57

And if I ever attend your school, guillaumeb Oct 2017 #58

Why would you get to question them?? Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #59

You are my guru, my inspiration. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #60

You are no anarchist Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #61

The cognitive dissonance set off a destructive resonance.......... guillaumeb Oct 2017 #63

that does not surprize me in the least Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #65

Your framing is about institutions and rules Lordquinton Oct 2017 #42

Organizations have a legal right to set rules. That is the issue. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #51

Many can see why you are attempting to remove religion from the conversation Lordquinton Oct 2017 #67

Where do you, or any other, find evidence of this? guillaumeb Oct 2017 #70

I would think that if a boy wanted to wear a kilt ........... it would also break the rules Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #9

I thought about starting with that Lordquinton Oct 2017 #19

so true but I assume it is broken down to sex on what to wear Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #21

Which is where the issue arrises Lordquinton Oct 2017 #23

Some seem intolerant of the fact that institutions have the right to enforce certain rules. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #31

Institutions have the right to enforce certain rules? Lordquinton Oct 2017 #43

He just makes it too easy sometimes. trotsky Oct 2017 #47

See #53. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #54

You're not helping yourself here Lordquinton Oct 2017 #66

A careful reading of my other post regarding the shark suit and Austria guillaumeb Oct 2017 #69

"institutions have the right to enforce certain rules" trotsky Oct 2017 #46

Do you know the difference between private institutions and the government? guillaumeb Oct 2017 #53

Government is an institution, and you didn't distinguish. trotsky Oct 2017 #64

I would assume that is part of their religion Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #74

Agreed. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #75

rules are NOT customs Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #78

It seems to me that some here cannot admit that institutions can make rules. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #84

Of course they can make rules. Cuthbert Allgood Oct 2017 #86

institutions can make rules. Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #91

What I said was my entire point. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #92

At one time priests could marry and have families Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #93

You can project, or frame, as you wish. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #94

The OP was about a church denying a young girl her wish of wearing a nice pants suit Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #95

If it is private it has the right to have dress codes Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #7

We agree that private institutions can impose rules. eom guillaumeb Oct 2017 #26

Private schools have a right to set things like dress codes. TexasProgresive Oct 2017 #22

Agreed on your points. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #27

This is not a matter of legal issues at all. MineralMan Oct 2017 #48

No worries. This problem will be resolved soon enough. AtheistCrusader Oct 2017 #81

I will not step aside to avoid that "avalanche" at this point. eom guillaumeb Oct 2017 #85

And you are free to do so. AtheistCrusader Oct 2017 #87

At the current rate of theist to non-theist "conversion", so to speak, guillaumeb Oct 2017 #88

Look closer at people under 40. AtheistCrusader Oct 2017 #89

Projections, or "projection"? guillaumeb Oct 2017 #90

Trend lines. AtheistCrusader Oct 2017 #96

Others well after us will see. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #97

They didn't actually deny her Communion. LisaM Oct 2017 #2

First Communion is a celebration in the joining of a soul to the church Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #10

I did not say I thought it was an acceptable response. LisaM Oct 2017 #12

I understood the pants acceptance Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #13

I just don't like misleading headlines (clickbait!) so I try to flag them. n/t LisaM Oct 2017 #14

I bet she would have been very pretty in her pantssuit Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #15

There was a picture of it somewhere. LisaM Oct 2017 #17

The intolerant gender separation is strictly enforced Lordquinton Oct 2017 #3

organized religion is so tolerant Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #11

The good deeds of the church are held above reproach Lordquinton Oct 2017 #20

What's ClarendonDem Oct 2017 #35

Roman Catholic Church Lordquinton Oct 2017 #44

In the town I live in there is a Catholic school and Doreen Oct 2017 #16

Well, my town had that in the public schools. LisaM Oct 2017 #18

I know they used to do that at public schools also but they had Doreen Oct 2017 #45

It was a peculiar time.... LisaM Oct 2017 #52

That is funny. Doreen Oct 2017 #55

It was funny, and the poor kid (now a freshman at Vanderbilt) has to hear about it a lot. LisaM Oct 2017 #56

Church forgot that we have religious freedom in this country. McCamy Taylor Oct 2017 #30

Have you ever seem Muslim men wearing a long robe in public? guillaumeb Oct 2017 #32

What does religious freedom ClarendonDem Oct 2017 #36

Good lord, females fought that battle when I was in high school and we won. Irish_Dem Oct 2017 #37

Don't take communion, it is not a real thing? Not Ruth Oct 2017 #38

And stay out! Iggo Oct 2017 #40

K&R!!! She's learning at an early age what religion is all about. Hope she walks and RKP5637 Oct 2017 #76

There's so much more to life without religion. Iggo Oct 2017 #80

It's in the bible and communion dresses are big business lunasun Oct 2017 #62

This is news why? It's the Catholic "Fetuses' Lives before Women's Lives" Church. 50 Shades Of Blue Oct 2017 #77

An understandable sentiment, but blaming the victim isn't a productive use of our time. Act_of_Reparation Oct 2017 #82

There is no victim here - only delusional parents who seemed to think the Catholic Church 50 Shades Of Blue Oct 2017 #83

As a church or church school, are they not a private institution? left-of-center2012 Oct 2017 #79