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JustAnotherGen

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Mon Apr 9, 2012, 01:58 PM
Apr 2012

Not likely.

And soooo many people, regardless of their race/ethnic background do not understand the MEANING - the definition if you will of racism.

Example - I grew up in a black neighborhood and I got picked on by the neighborhood kids for being white.

vs.

Example - Driving While Black is Dangerous is some places. So is shopping. It's not 'personal'. It just is. I have to be cognizant because society finds racial profiling of blacks as no-good and always up to something shifty. This leads to higher incarceration rates for example.

See the difference?


Now ALL white liberals? No. My mom is one - my fiance is one . . . but my fiance will also tell you "I'm not white! I'm Calabrese". He's literally off the plane from the Calabrian region of Italy. They ARE different down there. Those people! Neither one claims it is the 'same' thing. It's not. But they look at the world through their CHILDREN and future childrens' eyes if that makes sense . . .


A converse- my dad 'got' the discrimination towards the Irish in this country. Here's a black man with a dark complexion from the deep South. But you probe deeper - and you'd learn his formative years were very much shaped by three people - his Cherokee great gram, his black grandfather, and his Irish off the boat from Galway great grandfather.

But - he would also say - the difference is (as learned from his grand daddy with the accent ) an Irish person can walk the street, not open their mouth and not be bothered. His great grandsons could not.

That's the difference in America. And it's something white liberals sometimes 'try' to understand by 'identifying' with. It's not inherently evil - because the difference between a white American person at DU and Freeperland? The membership here might not always 'get it' - but they try. They care. They WANT to give a damn.

One Serious Question ... [View all] 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2012 OP
It is possible SteveABG Apr 2012 #1
Good Lord... Number23 Apr 2012 #10
Yeah I think so.. bayareamike Apr 2012 #2
I very much hope so. eom BlueMTexpat Apr 2012 #3
Well that depends.... daleanime Apr 2012 #4
it is. and the patience it will require of you will be appreciated by many of us. nofurylike Apr 2012 #5
WOW!! That Biko quote is AMAZING!!! Number23 Apr 2012 #11
thank you, Number23! yes!! isn't Biko's writing AMAZING?!! nofurylike Apr 2012 #15
Yes. mzteris Apr 2012 #6
I think it's miscommunication somewhat. Neoma Apr 2012 #7
you did good bigtree Apr 2012 #13
Thank you ... n/y 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2012 #14
The concept of white privilege is hard for many whites to understand, kwassa Apr 2012 #8
In general, I think the answer is a resounding "no" to be honest Number23 Apr 2012 #9
i agree it is not possible on the "big forums." nofurylike Apr 2012 #21
I have not seen that thread, but I will reply anyway... ZombieHorde Apr 2012 #12
At DU JustAnotherGen Apr 2012 #16
"but they try. They care. They WANT to give a damn." Number23 Apr 2012 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author Fredjust Apr 2012 #18
Yeah, I do it all the time... Blue_Tires Apr 2012 #19
i apologize. when i said "yes," i failed to add "as long as the discussion takes place nofurylike Apr 2012 #20
I think ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2012 #22
yes: "their basic misunderstanding of the issue is BECAUSE of the priviledge that they enjoy." nofurylike Apr 2012 #23
i would like to add that i hope you will keep trying. nofurylike Apr 2012 #24
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