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Scruffy Rumbler

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41. I am fortunate that I was able to express to her how I felt about her many years ago,
Mon Nov 12, 2012, 07:22 PM
Nov 2012

because now she has Alzheimer's. Next Monday marks the end of the second year since my partner and I moved back to provide her a home. She and I still have a good relationship. She told me two years ago during a moment of clarity that no matter what else she has forgotten, she would always remember me...Most days she can't remember my name, but does remember I am one of her "babies". And when she does finally lose that part of her memory, well I'll just remember for the both of us!

Post removed Post removed Nov 2012 #1
No fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #2
Huh? GitRDun Nov 2012 #3
Lesbians Make Less Than Gay Men fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #4
I don't think being gay GitRDun Nov 2012 #12
I think you need to refocus on what can be agreed upon and maybe state what feels misunderstood. Tigress DEM Nov 2012 #5
Starting Discussion- Not Finger Pointing fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #7
THESE aren't differences between gays and lesbians, but you list them that way. Tigress DEM Nov 2012 #16
No Competition fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #17
in Hawaii there are some big differences in gay males/lesbian culture - msongs Nov 2012 #6
I Think That is True fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #8
maybe. maybe not... but as a gay man with ... JustFiveMoreMinutes Nov 2012 #9
Sounds Wonderful fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #10
Um. Lesbians are women Vanje Nov 2012 #11
Welcome fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #13
Question and answers Anthony McCarthy Nov 2012 #14
So Empathy and Understanding fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #15
What in the world does that mean in the context of what I said? Anthony McCarthy Nov 2012 #31
For The Record I Do Not Agree with the Jury's decision in Post 1 fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #18
I'm cool with almost everything libodem Nov 2012 #19
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kinda libodem Nov 2012 #21
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literature libodem Nov 2012 #29
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Call Me Wesley fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #35
Nobody taps in the bathroom stalls libodem Nov 2012 #22
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Thank you for laughing libodem Nov 2012 #25
No HockeyMom Nov 2012 #28
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Thanks! fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #34
As the queer son of a Lesbian, Scruffy Rumbler Nov 2012 #37
Sure That's True fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #38
That's true... Scruffy Rumbler Nov 2012 #39
Sounds Like a Good Mom fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #40
I am fortunate that I was able to express to her how I felt about her many years ago, Scruffy Rumbler Nov 2012 #41
WOW fightthegoodfightnow Nov 2012 #42
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