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seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
6. i have been saying ALL of this for a couple years now.
Mon Dec 19, 2011, 01:56 PM
Dec 2011

literally, ALL of it. good to have confirmation on my thinking process. and i say this because as a young girl, i too had the older men thinking they were all that. being a waitress, it was dependent on my tip, my ability to eat. so as i smiled and allowed, i was thinking creep until i got in the backroom and was allowed to tell the fellow employees what a creep that man was....

why did that man drive up to the 12 yr old and say that? dominance. it is the same as rape just a very shallow level of it. to feel empowered and to humiliate that girl. nothing more.

why do older men oggle the young girl? same thing. you can feel it as the recipient, you know what the man is doing. and every man that feels it is his right, likes to pretend otherwise. but it is not easily hidden like they think it is. and an older woman wouldnt put up with their shit and they know it.

before, there were more men like the article speaks of, with the real man. today, my theory is, with the inundation of porn and easy accessibility of porn and the mainstreaming and normalizing porn, too many older men have learned to sexualize our young girls instead of seeing them are the article states men should see our young girls.

not to mention the evolutionary garbage feeding this tripe to men.

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