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Response to Bonobo (Reply #85)

Tue May 28, 2013, 06:50 PM

86. Im going to stick with my earlier statement.

Like i said, it was not deemed acceptable. Only reason I can imagine that there might be a problem with it, again, is attachment to extreme ideological positions.

"Consent is a bright line that shouldn't be fucked with. No means no. Yes means yes. Coercion invalidates consent, by definition. Women have the agency to consent just as they have the agency to not consent. Clear communication being the bedrock of adult relations, consent becomes meaningless if people try to interpret yes from a "no". Giving consent once does not imply eternal consent, and consent can be revoked at any time. However, broad sociological narratives don't invalidate the fact that consensual adult sex is a reality and consenting adults MUST HAVE the freedom to make their own damn decisions about their lives and bodies."


And for the record, i DO support teaching boys not to pressure girls into sex.

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