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Warren DeMontague

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2. Is it me, or are there some kind of major gender battles going on in the UK that we don't have here?
Sun Oct 7, 2012, 04:38 PM
Oct 2012

I don't know. I just see all this extremist radfem yargle coming out of the UK, Australia, etc... women in the US seem to have (mostly) gotten past these ideas of Feminism being one big battle against the objectifying penis of doom that is always trying to sneak a peek at their boobs.

...and this, too. Does anyone in the US actually use the word "Cuckolded"?

I think in the US, the legal obligation for child support rests with the legal father- being, the legally married person to the mother. I could be wrong. Certainly, I could see divorces resulting from a discovery of different paternity; however, one glaring thing I would take issue with from this author is the notion that a paternity test can "lead to" "marital violence". Sorry, there's no excuse for violence, marital or otherwise. No matter who has been cheating on whom. An excuse for divorce? Absolutely.

Also, I find the notion of women 'tricking men into financially supporting someone else's children' to be a noxious and bogus notion. I just don't think it happens in reality, at least not like that, and it's a 2 dimensional phony boogey person, sort of like the "bon-bon eating welfare queen".. "Yes, I am tricking you into providing financial assistance to the spawn of another man's seed MUAHAHAHAHAHAHA"

Nah. Don't think it goes like that.

However, like I said, I think in the US if you are the legal father you are legally obligated for child support; I don't know, maybe I'm wrong. I would also say that if you're going to be in a family-creating, baby making sort of type situation with someone, all the more reason to make sure there is real trust and good communication involved in that relationship.

I don't know if it is fringe or not. ElboRuum Oct 2012 #1
Is it me, or are there some kind of major gender battles going on in the UK that we don't have here? Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #2
I think in the US there is a lot of state-by-state variance 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #3
Here's the thing, though- I would take issue with "stuck". Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #4
If you choose to remain that is one thing 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #5
Someone must think I'm just made o free time, if I'm going to do the elaborate charade of pretending Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #6
I strongly disagree, the man should be released of any legal responability... he was decieved Hemp_is_good Oct 2012 #18
"I find the notion of women 'tricking men into financially supporting someone else's children'..." stevenleser Oct 2012 #8
I suspect many of those situations have more to do with infidelity and dishonesty than Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #9
I agree with you there, maybe I misunderstood. stevenleser Oct 2012 #10
and lies have a way of compounding upon themselves. Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #11
Interesting ruling regarding women who do this intentionally: 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #15
Yes it does happen just like that sometimes Major Nikon Oct 2012 #13
Yup, Sen. Walter Sobchak Oct 2012 #7
I'd like to see mandatory paternity tests.. MicaelS Oct 2012 #12
That would be interesting 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #14
Really? Why? Serious question. Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #16
Post removed Post removed Oct 2012 #17
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