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Unless you're asking about some "Love at first sight" situation, in which case, no. Not that either.
Now, my in-laws were pretty open racists - not mean, but prejudiced. (as if that was any better but I digress). But then, so were my wife's. We both managed to escape that and have been happily married for 30 years.
Growing up in Texas I knew more than my fair share of racists. I didn't date them.