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8. Yeah. . .it's just hard for a 26 year old Chinese woman who idolized her father

Tue Feb 16, 2016, 11:56 AM

Feb 2016

She's leaning on me because I'm a 38 year old American man who doesn't care if his father lives or dies due to years of physical, emotional and psychological abuse.

I'm working to keep her head on right, but she's having a hard time.

We have a place in China. In time, the VA house will be bought. And I have family nearby in Gainesville.

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DUers, I need to vent and let shit out. Please lend a sympathetic ear [View all] Feeling the Bern Feb 2016 OP

I'm so sorry for what you and yourfamily are going through LiberalEsto Feb 2016 #1

sending good vibes.... restorefreedom Feb 2016 #2

Does not sound like there is much you can do. Downwinder Feb 2016 #3

We have to take care of her. Feeling the Bern Feb 2016 #5

So all you need is a house with a MIL apartment Downwinder Feb 2016 #7

Yeah. . .it's just hard for a 26 year old Chinese woman who idolized her father Feeling the Bern Feb 2016 #8

Her parents made it through the Downwinder Feb 2016 #9

Actually, her father was three years old when it started. Her mother was a newborn Feeling the Bern Feb 2016 #11

I'm a little confused greymouse Feb 2016 #4

MIL did nothing wrong. Feeling the Bern Feb 2016 #6

Here's some basic information but you need to speak to an immigration attorney. rug Feb 2016 #10