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NanceGreggs

(27,813 posts)
144. I rarely come into the Lounge ...
Thu Jul 16, 2015, 12:58 AM
Jul 2015

But tonight, I decided to take a quick look around. Imagine my surprise at seeing this thread resurface after almost two months since Jeff passed.

It's been difficult to adjust to the silence. We both worked from home, were together 24/7, and gabbed constantly about everything - politics, the news, the neighbourhood, our friends, books, movies. In our 22 plus years together, we just never shut up.

And the man made me laugh every day. His quick wit never failed - he had a one-liner for every situation. You know how funny he could be on DU - imagine what it was like living with a man who was that funny all the time.

One of his oft-spoken one-liners would come up when he read some ridiculous anti-Obama post on DU. He'd shake his head and say, "See, this is why I backed the Kurovski-Wetzelbill ticket - but did anyone listen to me? Oh, noooooo."

Thanks for your condolences, and your truly lovely words about Jeff. Wherever he is, I've no doubt he's read them/heard them, and is proud to count you among his friends.

Rest in peace, JeffR. In_The_Wind May 2015 #1
I saw that this morning on FaceBook, it's so very sad to hear. NYC_SKP May 2015 #2
We can argue politics until we're blue in the face DFW May 2015 #3
Yes, exactly. Some things are bigger than "D" & "R". R.I.P. 7962 May 2015 #25
Oh, so very very sorry to hear this.... hlthe2b May 2015 #4
Did I miss a GD thread? For those of us not on Facebook, could someone post a bit more? hlthe2b May 2015 #5
JeffR left this plane just before 7:00 pm, Toronto. NYC_SKP May 2015 #6
Thank you... hlthe2b May 2015 #7
.... 840high May 2015 #73
Nance is currently in timeout (since May 11). Ms. Toad May 2015 #81
We'll see. Great idea. NYC_SKP May 2015 #84
I have no idea if there was a GD thread DFW May 2015 #10
I think it is only human that those of us who came to really enjoy JeffR (and Nance's) posts would hlthe2b May 2015 #12
No harm done n/t DFW May 2015 #19
I am glad you posted here, thank you. dixiegrrrrl May 2015 #69
I'm so grateful you posted it. intheflow May 2015 #138
I know what you mean DFW May 2015 #139
RIP n2doc May 2015 #8
Damn! A big loss. panader0 May 2015 #9
Oh, wow. malthaussen May 2015 #11
RIP JeffR. Skinner May 2015 #13
Oh no. Very sorry to hear this! cyberswede May 2015 #14
() Jack Rabbit May 2015 #15
So sorry to hear this. brer cat May 2015 #16
How sad. bigwillq May 2015 #17
I'm sorry to hear this. Renew Deal May 2015 #18
Spousal connection DFW May 2015 #20
Sleep well in the great night Half-Century Man May 2015 #21
((JeffR)) blm May 2015 #22
I am so sorry to learn this.... femmocrat May 2015 #23
So sorry and sad to see this. BlueMTexpat May 2015 #24
My condolences to his family and may he forever rest in peace. LoisB May 2015 #26
Oh nooooooo! trusty elf May 2015 #27
So sorry to hear this cal04 May 2015 #28
Man! DU loses another valuable citizen. longship May 2015 #29
omg. My heart-felt condolences to you Nance and your family and friends. MerryBlooms May 2015 #30
RIP to the DUzy roastmaster general. Initech May 2015 #31
Condolences to Nance and their families. This is terrible news. Hekate May 2015 #32
RIP, JeffR. OnyxCollie May 2015 #33
RIP pintobean May 2015 #34
JeffR... Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #35
This makes me so sad. Blue_In_AK May 2015 #36
Oh my, a great person that will be sorely missed. Sheepshank May 2015 #37
... Flying Squirrel May 2015 #38
I'm sorry to hear this A Little Weird May 2015 #39
RIP wryter2000 May 2015 #40
I'm in tears. I just saw this. I'm so sorry, Nance. Solly Mack May 2015 #41
I had no idea. A wrenching loss, not only to those who knew him. rug May 2015 #42
RIP. Condolences to his loving wife and family. KittyWampus May 2015 #43
Our loss is great, your loss Nance, heartbreaking. Peace to you and your families. Fla Dem May 2015 #44
(((((((JeffR))))))) WillyT May 2015 #45
OMG! Kali May 2015 #46
Rest in peace, JeffR. Unknown Beatle May 2015 #47
RIP JeffR steve2470 May 2015 #48
Rest in peace JeffR. lovemydog May 2015 #49
What a lovely tribute to JeffR, my dear DFW... CaliforniaPeggy May 2015 #50
He will be missed. bluedigger May 2015 #51
Passing along my sincere condolences AwakeAtLast May 2015 #52
My condolences to Nance. cui bono May 2015 #53
Such sad news. greatauntoftriplets May 2015 #54
Damn. nt awoke_in_2003 May 2015 #55
Very sad to hear this. My thoughts and prayers to Nancy and her family. boston bean May 2015 #56
RIP JeffR Little Star May 2015 #57
Oh, this is so sad. cbayer May 2015 #58
RIP JeffR sheshe2 May 2015 #59
I am so so sorry... RIP JeffR Peacetrain May 2015 #60
Really sorry to hear this - TBF May 2015 #61
I am simply heartbroken Mira May 2015 #62
My heart is broken. I am also in tears. Mira May 2015 #63
Farewell to a great and beautiful and generous soul. scarletwoman May 2015 #64
JeffR, one day I'll meet you further on up the road. . . DinahMoeHum May 2015 #65
With respect to letting the news out DFW May 2015 #108
I'm sure Nance forgives you. . .as do all of us. DinahMoeHum May 2015 #120
I has a sad shenmue May 2015 #66
I'm so sorry, Nance. lamp_shade May 2015 #67
. Omaha Steve May 2015 #68
Peace, to Jeff, and to Nance MannyGoldstein May 2015 #70
There will be a little more laughter in heaven tonight.... daleanime May 2015 #71
Go in Peace RoyGBiv May 2015 #72
...and the wheel turns. Blessings JeffR. RIP. WheelWalker May 2015 #74
Very Sad...wish best to NANCE and Family.... KoKo May 2015 #75
Pass gently, Jeff kentauros May 2015 #76
So sad and shocked. Mz Pip May 2015 #77
Damn Safe passage, Jeff eridani May 2015 #78
Sorry to hear this. Swede May 2015 #79
Rest in peace, JeffR democrank May 2015 #80
Oh man ismnotwasm May 2015 #82
This one cuts deeply. herding cats May 2015 #83
I may have overstepped a line, but I hope not. DFW May 2015 #109
JeffR certainly left a lot of memories with a lot of folk rurallib May 2015 #85
i'm nance's sister. only a few DesertFlower May 2015 #86
I hope it was OK to let the board know DFW May 2015 #110
i think it was okay. DesertFlower May 2015 #117
I heard from her this morning DFW May 2015 #118
Sad. Warren Stupidity May 2015 #87
... 2naSalit May 2015 #88
So sorry to hear this RetroLounge May 2015 #89
Thank you rosesaylavee May 2015 #90
So sorry to hear this and so sorry for Nance. hrmjustin May 2015 #91
I am very sorry to hear this. ucrdem May 2015 #92
Can I say "DUZY" just in his honor? catrose May 2015 #93
A truly great loss. joshcryer May 2015 #94
So sorry to hear the news. AtomicKitten May 2015 #95
JeffR Bobbie Jo May 2015 #96
Nance, I am so very sorry for your loss. KMOD May 2015 #97
JeffR was a mainstay in the old days. Jackpine Radical May 2015 #98
Thanks for the post, Manny. Jackpine Radical May 2015 #99
Manny posted something on the GD board DFW May 2015 #129
Oh Nance and JeffR.. I am so sorry and sad Jeff had to leave Cha May 2015 #100
Cross gently, Jeff. Jesus... Cooley Hurd May 2015 #101
So sorry… What a loss to us... MrMickeysMom May 2015 #102
I loved all the hard work he put into putting those DUzys together--some of those compilations had MADem May 2015 #103
OMG!!! tosh May 2015 #104
Damn. pacalo May 2015 #105
I hate it when people leave. It feels so lonely. roguevalley May 2015 #106
I am so sorry to hear about this. RiffRandell May 2015 #107
I am so terribly sorry. LeftishBrit May 2015 #111
Very sad news Iwillnevergiveup May 2015 #112
Safe passage to Jeff. Call Me Wesley May 2015 #113
I heard from Nance, and this post is in line with her wishes DFW May 2015 #114
RIP, JeffR. And thanks for the memories. pnwmom May 2015 #115
So sad sellitman May 2015 #116
How sad! He brought so much joy to DU. May he rest in peace. myrna minx May 2015 #119
Oh, damn bigtree May 2015 #121
So sorry to hear this deutsey May 2015 #122
He was a real treasure... Phentex May 2015 #123
Oh man, :( he was certainly one of the good ones. Javaman May 2015 #124
I am so sorry blondie58 May 2015 #125
Rest in Peace Jeff and thanks for all the laughs over the years. My sympathy to you Nance and livetohike May 2015 #126
I'm so very sorry, Nance. I lost my beloved best friend of 31 years last year. catbyte May 2015 #127
With all the crap going on in the world... awoke_in_2003 May 2015 #128
RIP Jeff and Hugs to Nance tishaLA May 2015 #130
sincere condolences to Nance and family and friends passiveporcupine May 2015 #131
Rest in eternal Peace my brother! FrenchieCat May 2015 #132
. ScreamingMeemie May 2015 #133
I am sorry to hear of this. icymist May 2015 #134
Oh my God. I had no idea Number23 May 2015 #135
Another great one taken from us. progressoid May 2015 #136
peace DainBramaged May 2015 #137
Terrible news, everyone looked forward to JeffR and the DUzys. TK421 May 2015 #140
RIP JeffR blackspade May 2015 #141
My condolences NanceGreggs denbot May 2015 #142
. Kurovski Jul 2015 #143
I rarely come into the Lounge ... NanceGreggs Jul 2015 #144
I wish I could hug you right now. Kurovski Jul 2015 #145
I wish you could hug me now, too. NanceGreggs Jul 2015 #146
It is heartening to see sentiments like this still expressed here DFW Jul 2015 #147
crap! i didn't know. i'm so sorry to hear this news orleans Jul 2015 #148
Not everyone heard DFW Jul 2015 #149
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