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LynneSin

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17. As someone who has drunk herself unconscious but is not a drunk, I have this to say
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 11:02 AM
Dec 2011

First, I am lucky I didn't develop a drinking problem.

Second, I can't say that this was something I had done on a regular basis

Third, for some of us we were young and in college we rolled with a crowd that loved to party. And I think at sometime most of us in our group probably drank way too much. I think for me, I liked drinking because I could be silly and carefree but once in a blue moon I would not realize I had hit my limits, probably because I was an inexperienced drinker. I could count on hand the number of times that has happened (and I wouldn't even need the thumb).

The last time was when I was out of college and my friend drug me to a party that was basically a bunch of losers (and Clinton haters too). Instead of drinking to be silly and carefree I was drinking because I was bored and surrounded by assholes. Within 20 minutes of being there I had some asshole hitting on me which made the party even worse and I begged my friend to go elsewhere but she wanted to stay.

That was the last time I ever drank like that and it was about 20 years ago when it happened. I also realized if I kept hanging out with this girl there was a chance I would drink until I blacked out again and again. So I made a vow that if I could survive the most wicked hangover ever, that i would never drink like that again. If I had to drink in order to tolerate people then perhaps I shouldn't hang out with those people.

I do still drink today but it's a glass of red wine a few times a week (I probably do a bottle a week which is about 4-5 glasses). It was suggested by my doctor red wine would be good for my heart. On a rare occassion I may drink more than normal, last time was probably a few months ago in NYC. But even then I was still able to walk home and even make it to my class the next day. But it was a fun night and none of us had to drive, so that was good too.

So honestly, after this rambling like this, I have no clue why people drink to the point of passing out. I think when you're younger, it's because you don't know your limits but as you get older it's because you are unhappy and want to mask the pain.

i don't know. i don't drink at all. DesertFlower Dec 2011 #1
Obviously you are not an alcoholic. So luckily you will never "get why". 1620rock Dec 2011 #2
Because being conscious sucks worse MannyGoldstein Dec 2011 #3
I had a drinking problem in 9th grade babydollhead Dec 2011 #4
I've never understood it. Being aware in some situations is very painful, so I guess that's why. freshwest Dec 2011 #5
Alcoholism, to numb pain, cause some think it's "cool" slay Dec 2011 #6
Being really drunk can be fun. laconicsax Dec 2011 #7
This. I can't do it anymore, but when I did that was the reason. Sirveri Dec 2011 #8
Well that explains that, I HATE losing my judgement, which is why... Odin2005 Dec 2011 #15
I used to when I was young and reckless. progressoid Dec 2011 #9
Alcoholics crave more and more, they can't help it. It's not necessary that you "get it". Lil Missy Dec 2011 #10
^ this ^ geardaddy Dec 2011 #18
To combat insomnia- Dragonbreathp9d Dec 2011 #11
cuz they got shit to forget, man! pnwest Dec 2011 #12
I binge drank as a teen because i was so shy and I really didn't want to be socializing applegrove Dec 2011 #13
Texts From Last Night (dot com) saras Dec 2011 #14
I don't drink much anymore, but I could always tell when I reached the "cut-off point"; LeftinOH Dec 2011 #16
As someone who has drunk herself unconscious but is not a drunk, I have this to say LynneSin Dec 2011 #17
Good, it means you're not an alcoholic pokerfan Dec 2011 #19
<3 leo fizzgig Dec 2011 #20
What a wonderful show with amazing writers. n/t MiddleFingerMom Dec 2011 #22
Maybe Leo Was On To Something RobinA Dec 2011 #30
Because it takes some a few years to learn you can have more fun on a couple of drinks Major Nikon Dec 2011 #21
Alcoholics are stupid? pokerfan Dec 2011 #24
As a group, I'd say alcoholics are probably as intelligent as everyone else Major Nikon Dec 2011 #38
I can't drink that much because I'll throw up long before I get drunk. Demoiselle Dec 2011 #23
Most people don't LIKE drinking themselves unconscious - though the people who drink to escape might MiddleFingerMom Dec 2011 #25
I think people who become real assholes when they drink... LynneSin Dec 2011 #26
In vino veritas pokerfan Dec 2011 #27
That always used to amuse/confuse me when I was younger... CJCRANE Dec 2011 #28
Because work is just so fucking boring sometimes, and I'm not allowed to hunt co-workers PVnRT Dec 2011 #29
It's the only thing that calms the bees in my head. WilliamPitt Dec 2011 #31
There is a rabid squirrel that lives in my skull that I can only silence by soaking him in beer Throd Dec 2011 #34
Okay, Will mwdem Dec 2011 #35
Meditation will fix the bee-in-your-head problem! Odin2005 Dec 2011 #37
they like the voyage getting there reggie the dog Dec 2011 #32
It's an adventure CJCRANE Dec 2011 #33
I wrote a poem on the subject once. Prisoner_Number_Six Dec 2011 #36
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