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In reply to the discussion: Well I just got dumped. [View all]Populist_Prole
(5,364 posts)I'm a guy, and I've been dumped a couple of times by women, though in hindsight I did see some "signs" it was coming but I couldn't ( or didn't want to? ) connect the dots. Truthfully, I was just a temporary rebound BF as it turned out.
Though it took me a while to figure it out, I found that it's really simple: Once someone gets it into their mind and you no longer have their heart, their is NOTHING, I repeat, nothing you can do or say to make them want you. That people can make such snap judgments of matters of such gravity is maddening. I was in great physical shape, and other than romantically, I had all my life's ducks in a row as they say.....It was the apogee of my being...and it was all for naught. They didn't give a damn. Looking back I totally cringe now at my pathetic attempts to woo them back and how demeaning it was, and how wimpy vulnerable they must have thought I sounded.