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(713 posts)being taken by cancer. We will light a candle for your beloved & send earnest prayers for him, you & all of your loved ones & friends. I know you don't know me BUT I sincerely wish nothing but love, comfort & the best support for you. It's hard to look up when everything seems to be falling all around you. My prayer & wish for you friend, is that a door opens for you to be with him, holding his hand & being there. It's true that people who are "comatose" are aware that the people who means the most to them are there with them. I am LITERALLY crying & I've never set eyes on you but you're a fellow human being & having undergone what your honey is going through, is enough. I always told my husband that in a weird way, it's easier to be the sick one because alot of the time, because of the drugs given for pain, etc, the patient is just sleeping. God bless you & please know that you have a GANG of people here on DU who are ready, willing & able to be there for you & your, even if it's virtually.