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ancianita

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49. Sending love.

Sun Sep 13, 2020, 06:07 PM

Sep 2020

There's no more to do. Just be. Take any calls, offers of help that seem like real help.

He knows you're there and love him.

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] Soph0571 Sep 2020 OP

I'm so sorry, Soph. Squinch Sep 2020 #1

I am so sorry Soph. I know you've been through hell already. I just hope you have tblue37 Sep 2020 #2

I'm sorry. I hope you can be with him. The Velveteen Ocelot Sep 2020 #3

When things are out of control and beyond our contol Chainfire Sep 2020 #4

Oh, Soph, I am so, so sorry. mnhtnbb Sep 2020 #5

You are doing all you can. raging moderate Sep 2020 #6

Oh my, Soph. I hope you can be with him. cayugafalls Sep 2020 #7

So sorry, Soph 💗💗💗 SheltieLover Sep 2020 #8

I'm so sorry, Soph. Ohiogal Sep 2020 #9

I'm so sorry. LuckyCharms Sep 2020 #10

I am so sorry for what you are going through. FM123 Sep 2020 #11

I'm so sorry. Voltaire2 Sep 2020 #12

It's always too fast...we're never ready...just turn your brain onto autopilot and set the dial to Karadeniz Sep 2020 #13

I am so sorry to hear that. wendyb-NC Sep 2020 #14

So very sorry to hear this, Soph. Adsos Letter Sep 2020 #15

Saddened to hear this ... RKP5637 Sep 2020 #16

My heart goes out to you; babylonsister Sep 2020 #17

I'm so sorry to hear more bad news Soph. brer cat Sep 2020 #18

Sorry to hear this. I wish I could send you some strength. Midnight Writer Sep 2020 #19

... alwaysinasnit Sep 2020 #20

so, so sorry stopdiggin Sep 2020 #21

So very very sorry. Wish there was an easy answer. Peace and hugs. Ninga Sep 2020 #22

So sorry for what you are going through. Desert grandma Sep 2020 #23

no words...... handmade34 Sep 2020 #24

(((((((((Sop))))))))) I am so very sorry to hear this sending loving and healing vibes for strength niyad Sep 2020 #25

I hope you found a side room to sit by SO's side cally Sep 2020 #26

I am so sorry, Soph. sheshe2 Sep 2020 #27

I'm so sorry,Soph. Lars39 Sep 2020 #28

I don't know you Soph, but I am praying alot.... onecent Sep 2020 #29

I'm so very sorry XanaDUer2 Sep 2020 #30

I'm so sorry, Soph. mountain grammy Sep 2020 #31

So fast, sadly. My heart goes out to you and SO. cry baby Sep 2020 #32

I"ve been reading your posts Mira Sep 2020 #33

Oh Susan we are so sad for you. CanonRay Sep 2020 #34

I wish so much that there were words to comfort both of you. flamin lib Sep 2020 #35

((((Soph)))). I'm so sad it has come to this. Know that you are in the prayers/vibes/thoughts... Hekate Sep 2020 #36

I am so very sorry... Trueblue Texan Sep 2020 #37

I'm so very sorry, Soph Alliepoo Sep 2020 #38

I'm so sorry wryter2000 Sep 2020 #39

"I don't know what to do." Botany Sep 2020 #40

So deeply sorry, Soph. volstork Sep 2020 #41

So very sorry Soph. sarge43 Sep 2020 #42

Soph, I'm so sorry--we're here for you. (n/t) MissMillie Sep 2020 #43

So sorry to hear this. peggysue2 Sep 2020 #44

I'm sorry you have to go through this. yonder Sep 2020 #45

Sending love 💖✨💕 MLAA Sep 2020 #46

(((((Soph))))) littlemissmartypants Sep 2020 #47

Soph, I am so sorry. I hope and pray that you can be with him today irisblue Sep 2020 #48

Sending love. ancianita Sep 2020 #49

I am very, very, very sorry Soph0571. These moments always seem so surreal. NNadir Sep 2020 #50

So sorry to hear this. Jim__ Sep 2020 #51

Dear Lord, I am so sorry... CaptainTruth Sep 2020 #52

Wishing you strength and solace GeoWilliam750 Sep 2020 #53

So very sorry, Soph TruckFump Sep 2020 #54

Hug ananda Sep 2020 #55

I hope so much you can be with him KT2000 Sep 2020 #56

Hugs and prayers for you and your SO. sueh Sep 2020 #57

Dear Heart Cosmo Blues Sep 2020 #58

i only hope barbtries Sep 2020 #59

Soph, may you find peace and solice and may your fellas transition be smooth and peaceful. Tender hopper Sep 2020 #60

Tears and love, Soph0571 SalmonChantedEvening Sep 2020 #61

I'm so sorry. We are never ready. Peace be with you and your Husband. Fla Dem Sep 2020 #62

Holding you in my heart, Soph. May strength find you. n/t TygrBright Sep 2020 #63

I'm so sorry, Soph. I so hoped you would have more time. femmedem Sep 2020 #64

We are all pulling for you at the terrible time. Sending you my best healing vibes. 🤗 hugs flying_wahini Sep 2020 #65

None of this is easy. warmfeet Sep 2020 #66

I'm so very sorry, Soph. Habibi Sep 2020 #67

There are many of us here, though not physically with you, that are with you in spirit. GemDigger Sep 2020 #68

Sending love and care. bronxiteforever Sep 2020 #69

We are ALL with you in spirit right now! bluestarone Sep 2020 #70

Thinking of you... Phentex Sep 2020 #71

So very sorry, Soph gademocrat7 Sep 2020 #72

Sending prayers for strength and peace JustinBulletin Sep 2020 #73

My heart is with you. Silver Gaia Sep 2020 #74

Sending strength, prayers and good thoughts to you. Niagara Sep 2020 #75

Oh, I am SO deeply sorry, Soph0571...It breaks my heart when I hear of yet another beautiful life The_REAL_Ecumenist Sep 2020 #76

You are in my thoughts, I wish I knew the right things to say for times like this. Tom Yossarian Joad Sep 2020 #77

I am so sorry. I hope you can with him but either way he is resting Tanuki Sep 2020 #78

Very sorry you are going through this. Dark n Stormy Knight Sep 2020 #79

You have been doing your best for him Wicked Blue Sep 2020 #80

In Buddhist thought... jmbar2 Sep 2020 #81

I'm so very sorry. sinkingfeeling Sep 2020 #82

I wish you comfort Marthe48 Sep 2020 #83

((Soph)) csziggy Sep 2020 #84

This message was self-deleted by its author Ligyron Sep 2020 #85

So sorry, Soph...... Heartstrings Sep 2020 #86

So sorry to hear ntsorry Nululu Sep 2020 #87

Soph, I am so profoundly sorry to hear this news. Dem2theMax Sep 2020 #88

Sending you strength and love. democrank Sep 2020 #89

I am sorry, as well. PatrickforO Sep 2020 #90