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surrealAmerican

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7. I agree with most of your post, but ...

Sun Dec 9, 2012, 07:42 PM

Dec 2012

... I must take exception to the idea of "hard wired" toy preferences. Babies and toddlers absorb far more from our culture than you might realize. That would seem to me the most likely explanation for stereotypical behavior in preschoolers.

I know my own son did play out story scenarios with barbie dolls, and my daughter did set up construction areas with toy trucks. They also played in more gender stereotypical ways. I doubt that they were very atypical for young children.

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You Can Give a Boy a Doll, but You Can't Make Him Play With It [View all] undeterred Dec 2012 OP

Smart parents give the kids what they want. Warpy Dec 2012 #1

I didn't see that in Head Start HockeyMom Dec 2012 #5

I played with a car and track set all the time RainDog Dec 2012 #18

I agree with most of your post, but ... surrealAmerican Dec 2012 #7

good post john-davidnj5 Dec 2012 #44

A man tax? That's pretty fucked up. nt Lucky Luciano Dec 2012 #2

I had a stuffed rabbit in grade school. Ash_F Dec 2012 #3

of course boys play with dolls--only they are called "action figures". niyad Dec 2012 #4

"X: A Fabulous Child's Story" lolly Dec 2012 #15

YES!!!! that is the story, and I thank you. niyad Dec 2012 #20

You're Welcome! lolly Dec 2012 #21

"boys and girls, on average, do not have identical interests, propensities, or needs" Mass Dec 2012 #6

Christina Hoff Sommers has made a career of this lolly Dec 2012 #16

I just think its fun to hear that Swedish men would sit down to pee undeterred Dec 2012 #19

Should go the other way. Igel Dec 2012 #23

Its quite messy when women stand to pee. undeterred Dec 2012 #26

I like sitting down to pee. Easier on the prostate. TrogL Dec 2012 #24

Tell me more Shrek Dec 2012 #25

Left Party wants men to pee sitting down undeterred Dec 2012 #27

Jesus, I sure am glad we solved Confusious Dec 2012 #29

Standing, you've really only got one workable position. TrogL Dec 2012 #30

If a guy wants to do it that's fine Confusious Dec 2012 #28

Hoffs Sommers is a Right Winger obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #33

You can give girls dolls as well, Kalidurga Dec 2012 #8

how many girls haven't pulled the head off barbie or some other doll ? JI7 Dec 2012 #10

I don't know any who haven't. Kalidurga Dec 2012 #13

i worked at places which sold things mostly girls bought but some boys would want JI7 Dec 2012 #9

I played with my little sister's dolls. Speck Tater Dec 2012 #11

I did not want the Barbie Doll House undeterred Dec 2012 #12

I once hanged all of my doll house figures. I used yarn. I can't remember why I wanted to CTyankee Dec 2012 #22

My son wanted a doll house but my husband wouldn't let me buy him one kimbutgar Dec 2012 #14

A man tax is not only sexist and predjudice... Taverner Dec 2012 #17

I agree. Even as a theoretical deterrent, it's like the proverbial sledgehammer. nomorenomore08 Dec 2012 #42

What about all the straight male adults currently playing with these - OhZone Dec 2012 #31

That's hilarious! And awesome... nomorenomore08 Dec 2012 #43

Christina Hoff Sommers should be a banned source here obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #32

The article is in the Atlantic undeterred Dec 2012 #37

So, it is progressive to use a known RW conservative as a legit source? obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #38

Well why don't you post the list of sources that meets your approval so we can start following it. undeterred Dec 2012 #39

So, you are stating right wing sources are okay to use? obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #40

Christina Hoff Sommers, in group tied to ALEC, the American Enterprise Institute Starry Messenger Dec 2012 #34

There is a post in Meta bt Cerridwen obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #35

Brilliant suggestion! Starry Messenger Dec 2012 #36

As usual, I think the real problem is trying to force people into these little boxes. nomorenomore08 Dec 2012 #41