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chervilant

(8,267 posts)
55. Actually,
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:28 PM
Aug 2013

I was referring to your other unfounded allegations, including your assertion that "her mother, grandmother, aunts, etc., are equally to blame."

I have been an advocate for survivors of relationship violence for more than thirty years. I've advocated with hundreds of survivors. I've earned a higher degree with a focus on relationship violence issues. I've lectured on relationship violence multiple times, at multiple colleges and universities. I can tell you unequivocally that you are wrong.

If you have any interest in learning more about child sexual abuse, and other forms of relationship violence, I encourage you to start building a personal reference library. If you do so, you can focus your time and energy on advocacy for survivors, because relationship violence is the norm, rather than the exception, and children are so very vulnerable.

In closing, I will share with you that I've survived every recognized category of child abuse. Consequently, I bring personal experience to the table when I advocate with survivors.

Terrible. MADem Aug 2013 #1
Here's the phone number - tell him what you think kristopher Aug 2013 #24
That judge is as sick and evil as the convicted rapist as Laurian Aug 2013 #2
Judge is Worse than Rapist bamasher Aug 2013 #4
She committed suicide... Ash_F Aug 2013 #3
the judge and the rapist should live for 30 days in a castrati academy Alamuti Lotus Aug 2013 #5
thank goodness I didn't settle in Montana, these people should all be indicted wordpix Aug 2013 #6
Ihave been in Montana for 30 sorefeet Aug 2013 #17
It must be another world there, sorefeet! Judi Lynn Aug 2013 #27
This is a rare outcome ... Wernothelpless Aug 2013 #30
I'm wishing for some Ilsa Aug 2013 #7
And the girl's mother ... Wernothelpless Aug 2013 #31
In what way was it the mother's fault? A Little Weird Aug 2013 #32
Mother's know ... Wernothelpless Aug 2013 #36
Where in the world did you come up with that? sinkingfeeling Aug 2013 #38
Unfortunately experience ... Wernothelpless Aug 2013 #40
That is an absolutely absurd, baseless accusation. A Little Weird Aug 2013 #39
The judge is dead wrong but when he states Wernothelpless Aug 2013 #41
You say she's been exposed to predators from a very young age A Little Weird Aug 2013 #43
the judge states more than that ... Wernothelpless Aug 2013 #44
I'm not trying to "kill the messenger" A Little Weird Aug 2013 #46
So, men are all rapists that can't control themselves? Dash87 Aug 2013 #57
Nonsensical and baseless accusation against the mother fujiyama Sep 2013 #63
Your remarks are bizarre lapislzi Sep 2013 #64
you have no way of knowing that noiretextatique Aug 2013 #48
bizarre indeed lunasun Aug 2013 #51
You are wrong, and chervilant Aug 2013 #52
And should you ... Wernothelpless Aug 2013 #54
Actually, chervilant Aug 2013 #55
What orifice are you pulling these allegations out of? n/t lapislzi Sep 2013 #65
You're blaming the victim. Piss off. (nt) Paladin Sep 2013 #66
WTF? Some may but not all do. No. The rapist is more to blame than anyone. Good lord uppityperson Aug 2013 #56
Four year minimum sentence... Make7 Aug 2013 #8
God... jimlup Aug 2013 #9
Why can't I separate the racial aspect from this horrendous action? vaberella Aug 2013 #10
For real XemaSab Aug 2013 #15
I dont know, his reputation is being easy on rapists from what I heard 7962 Aug 2013 #22
This is truly a travesty of justice. kwassa Aug 2013 #11
JUDGE WHO GAVE PREDATOR TEACHER 30 DAYS IS JAIL IS RUNNING FOR FIFTH TERM ON THE BENCH Alameda Aug 2013 #12
Mitigating factors per judge: She wanted and liked it or she'd have killed him = Wrongly convicted. freshwest Aug 2013 #13
Pathetic MichiganVote Aug 2013 #14
That's awful obama2terms Aug 2013 #16
Prove it the school district "knowingly hired" a sex offender. That's because you can't. duffyduff Aug 2013 #60
Uh the real question here is did YOU read the article obama2terms Sep 2013 #62
the judge should be removed from the bench rdking647 Aug 2013 #18
They have a sordid history of vigilantism in Montana. You probably don't want to go there. Comrade Grumpy Aug 2013 #45
OMGOSH! mecherosegarden Aug 2013 #19
"Principal Scott Anderson hired Rambold, knowing he was a sex offender" progressoid Aug 2013 #20
This is classic pedophile thinking... CoffeeCat Aug 2013 #21
+10000000. nt riderinthestorm Aug 2013 #23
bingo noiretextatique Aug 2013 #47
Well, the problem is... CoffeeCat Aug 2013 #50
i agree...there was that other judge who was basically noiretextatique Aug 2013 #59
Maybe it's time defacto7 Aug 2013 #25
The calls for 'street justice' ... Trajan Aug 2013 #26
+1 JusticeForAll Aug 2013 #34
Can you see the difference between this judge and Obama? Doctor_J Aug 2013 #35
Of course they are different Trajan Aug 2013 #42
I see a precise and relevant difference between the... LanternWaste Aug 2013 #58
I hope that judge is disbarred and I hope the girl's family sue the school for a tidy sum. nt SunSeeker Aug 2013 #28
It's a man's world ... Wernothelpless Aug 2013 #29
You are absolutely right. Divernan Aug 2013 #33
What is it with males who cannot understand what consitutes rape? sinkingfeeling Aug 2013 #37
There's long been a disconnect in opinion regarding statutory vs. forcible rape. Xithras Sep 2013 #67
Link to the Change.org petition site as well NickB79 Aug 2013 #49
that judge is a mysognist piece of shit! gopiscrap Aug 2013 #53
Still refusing to resign. There will be a formal Ilsa Aug 2013 #61
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