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Ilsa

(61,676 posts)
29. I'm so sorry your family is going through this.
Sat Feb 16, 2013, 03:15 PM
Feb 2013

It sounds like the DIL is a mess, probably drinking too much or doing drugs, maybe having an affair. She can't hit rock-bottom too soon, IMO.

I'm sorry her father was a putz, but she's had other loving family around to help her. She needs to stop using her absent father as an excuse.

That being said, I hope she figures out very soon what she could lose and straightens out before something happens that is irreversible.

Who cares? Not my business. nt babylonsister Feb 2013 #1
I'm with you. Happyhippychick Feb 2013 #6
It certainly is your business. Zoeisright Feb 2013 #13
You are not repsonible for your spouse's actions/character/etc. obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #19
You aren't 'repsonsible' for your spouse's actions or character, etc ? Trajan Feb 2013 #22
We are not repsonible for our spouse's actions or character obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #24
In Florida, it may make a difference to the voters. Baitball Blogger Feb 2013 #45
Oh, and thanks for the smartphone typo snark obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #25
He is not the girl's "father in law." He is their stepfather, barely. MADem Feb 2013 #26
I stand corrected .. Trajan Feb 2013 #31
While I sympathize with your perspective on this issue iemitsu Feb 2013 #34
One reason was mentioned. xmas74 Feb 2013 #43
Sure, the suit could be for perfectly legitimate reasons. iemitsu Feb 2013 #46
What does it say about the character of the spouse. I don't get it.. Kahuna Feb 2013 #20
zzzzz should keep this out of the news PatrynXX Feb 2013 #18
This woman is a complete sack of $hit AllTooEasy Feb 2013 #2
It is so sad to hear that. It really effects the kids. We are kinda going through something southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #9
My husbands best friend went through this Shiraz Feb 2013 #23
You know I don't know what is in her head. I swear the last time I saw her she brought southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #39
Sounds like an extra-marital relationship is going on, there. MADem Feb 2013 #27
Well here is the good thing. They are living in our double wide trailer next door to us. southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #37
Stop giving her the car. Tell her you can't carry her on your insurance or something. MADem Feb 2013 #38
I already stopped the car situation. There will be no more lending my car to her. I will southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #40
I'm so sorry your family is going through this. Ilsa Feb 2013 #29
Yes I hope and pray your right. I feel so sad for my granddaughter. At least she is smart southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #35
how the fuck do you know anything about this woman? Schema Thing Feb 2013 #12
By reading the article. Zoeisright Feb 2013 #14
lol, yeah, I thought that's how you'd gotten so intimately acquainted with her. Schema Thing Feb 2013 #21
Republican family values...eom dotymed Feb 2013 #15
Except Charlie is a Democrat now. Fuddnik Feb 2013 #17
There's a lot about her at a place called Google. MADem Feb 2013 #28
We are only hearing one side Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #30
Even given the facts of this case.... aaaaaa5a Feb 2013 #3
And here's a pic of a mom who ignores her own kids WhoWoodaKnew Feb 2013 #4
must be too busy making herself barbie-thin Divine Discontent Feb 2013 #5
That ex could be my brother. SwissTony Feb 2013 #16
It's hard to tell from the stories I have been reading. MADem Feb 2013 #33
Some people are not suitable to be parents. eilen Feb 2013 #7
Indeed, and there's not necessarily anything wrong with that. Xithras Feb 2013 #36
Well, we certainly did hear one side of it. Search Todd Rome and read about him a little bit. marble falls Feb 2013 #8
There's PLENTY of SCANDAL to go around, it would seem!! MADem Feb 2013 #32
Todd Rome is probably angling for a reality show. Everyone has an angle after all. graham4anything Feb 2013 #10
There are two sides to every story GreenEyedLefty Feb 2013 #11
What strikes me here is the RILib Feb 2013 #41
Is this one-sided domestic bs worthy of LBN? truthisfreedom Feb 2013 #42
How odd that Mrs. Crist would respond that way. Baitball Blogger Feb 2013 #44
This - I'm pretty sure - is the opposite of news. (nt) harmonicon Feb 2013 #47
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