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southernyankeebelle

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9. It is so sad to hear that. It really effects the kids. We are kinda going through something
Sat Feb 16, 2013, 10:35 AM
Feb 2013

like this ourselves. My daughter-in-law's dad left her on her birthday when she was a child and it has effected her til this day. She gets depressed and if she runs out of her medication all hell breaks down. If she gets mad at you then you don't get to see the kids. Right now she is mad at me because I had the audacity when she asked if she could borrow the car and that she would be back before the kids got off the bus from school. I said ok. Well at 8 pm at night she still wasn't back and my son was home from work and the kids went home with him. Well finally I called again and it was 11:20 at night and I asked her where she was with my car? Huh was all I got and reminded her what she said. Well she got upset at me about it. I told my son that the car was the only transportation we have living in a rural area and for him going to work. I haven't heard from her in days. This has been going on for weeks now. My son and her are having problems. It seems she cares about other people then her family. She sleeps all day and doesn't clean the house. She doesn't get up to make sure the kids are going to school. She usually takes them. The bus is way to early to pick them up. They live next door. We both told her that if she can't make it that we would take them. But she is to lazy to get out of bed. Finally the school sent a letter. At first my son didn't say anything. Well all hell broke when she got up and said she was worried about her friends baby because the mother had to go to work. That did it for him and he told her and show her a letter from the school about how the children are missing school. She went nuts. She left the house and it was a week. He ended up taking a leave of absence to deal with her problems. My son works in management now and at three different stores. Two are out of town. All she ever does as for long as we can remember is constantly complain. She can't seem to hold a job down. My son said just hold your end of the deal up. He isn't asked her to be overly clean but keep the house neat and wash the dishes and do the cloths. Surely she can do that much. We didn't tell him that the last few months she has been borrowing our car before lunch and sometimes she doesn't come home til 8pm. That is because the kids want her home. The kids need a mother at home. That is my biggest grip. She doesn't want to get up in the morning and when she does get up its never with a smile. My son has had it and I have never seen him so upset that he actually cried to the point he couldn't even speak. I'd never seen him like that and it is worrisome. He went back to work and he left his daughter with us because she didn't come home. He finally talked to her mother and grandmother to tell them what has been going on. They know how she is. Now she won't talk with them either because the mother told her to grow up and be a mother and stop partying around. She didn't like it. Who knows what is going to happen. He is in overdrive worrying about his daughter. Her son is at his father's house this weekend. Honestly what kind of a mother just ups and leaves and never lets you know where you are?

Who cares? Not my business. nt babylonsister Feb 2013 #1
I'm with you. Happyhippychick Feb 2013 #6
It certainly is your business. Zoeisright Feb 2013 #13
You are not repsonible for your spouse's actions/character/etc. obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #19
You aren't 'repsonsible' for your spouse's actions or character, etc ? Trajan Feb 2013 #22
We are not repsonible for our spouse's actions or character obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #24
In Florida, it may make a difference to the voters. Baitball Blogger Feb 2013 #45
Oh, and thanks for the smartphone typo snark obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #25
He is not the girl's "father in law." He is their stepfather, barely. MADem Feb 2013 #26
I stand corrected .. Trajan Feb 2013 #31
While I sympathize with your perspective on this issue iemitsu Feb 2013 #34
One reason was mentioned. xmas74 Feb 2013 #43
Sure, the suit could be for perfectly legitimate reasons. iemitsu Feb 2013 #46
What does it say about the character of the spouse. I don't get it.. Kahuna Feb 2013 #20
zzzzz should keep this out of the news PatrynXX Feb 2013 #18
This woman is a complete sack of $hit AllTooEasy Feb 2013 #2
It is so sad to hear that. It really effects the kids. We are kinda going through something southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #9
My husbands best friend went through this Shiraz Feb 2013 #23
You know I don't know what is in her head. I swear the last time I saw her she brought southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #39
Sounds like an extra-marital relationship is going on, there. MADem Feb 2013 #27
Well here is the good thing. They are living in our double wide trailer next door to us. southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #37
Stop giving her the car. Tell her you can't carry her on your insurance or something. MADem Feb 2013 #38
I already stopped the car situation. There will be no more lending my car to her. I will southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #40
I'm so sorry your family is going through this. Ilsa Feb 2013 #29
Yes I hope and pray your right. I feel so sad for my granddaughter. At least she is smart southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #35
how the fuck do you know anything about this woman? Schema Thing Feb 2013 #12
By reading the article. Zoeisright Feb 2013 #14
lol, yeah, I thought that's how you'd gotten so intimately acquainted with her. Schema Thing Feb 2013 #21
Republican family values...eom dotymed Feb 2013 #15
Except Charlie is a Democrat now. Fuddnik Feb 2013 #17
There's a lot about her at a place called Google. MADem Feb 2013 #28
We are only hearing one side Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #30
Even given the facts of this case.... aaaaaa5a Feb 2013 #3
And here's a pic of a mom who ignores her own kids WhoWoodaKnew Feb 2013 #4
must be too busy making herself barbie-thin Divine Discontent Feb 2013 #5
That ex could be my brother. SwissTony Feb 2013 #16
It's hard to tell from the stories I have been reading. MADem Feb 2013 #33
Some people are not suitable to be parents. eilen Feb 2013 #7
Indeed, and there's not necessarily anything wrong with that. Xithras Feb 2013 #36
Well, we certainly did hear one side of it. Search Todd Rome and read about him a little bit. marble falls Feb 2013 #8
There's PLENTY of SCANDAL to go around, it would seem!! MADem Feb 2013 #32
Todd Rome is probably angling for a reality show. Everyone has an angle after all. graham4anything Feb 2013 #10
There are two sides to every story GreenEyedLefty Feb 2013 #11
What strikes me here is the RILib Feb 2013 #41
Is this one-sided domestic bs worthy of LBN? truthisfreedom Feb 2013 #42
How odd that Mrs. Crist would respond that way. Baitball Blogger Feb 2013 #44
This - I'm pretty sure - is the opposite of news. (nt) harmonicon Feb 2013 #47
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