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olddad56

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21. We don't know why they took the boy. I would like to know the facts.
Fri Jan 11, 2013, 11:29 PM
Jan 2013

I would not be surprised if the grandparents thought that they were acting in the child's best behavior. What if the dad was a deadbeat and the mom was unfit to raise the kid but was granted custody. What if the boy had a happy life with his grandparents. I'm just playing devils advocate, cause we don't know the circumstances that motivated the grandparents. Maybe they did something horrific, maybe they did something courageous and in the boy's best interest. I hope to hear more about this one.

Words fail me Demeter Jan 2013 #1
Not having kids simplifies the arguments phenomenally... brooklynite Jan 2013 #6
Simply heartbreaking. No words. They'll never regain those lost years. nt riderinthestorm Jan 2013 #2
This is so sad... ReRe Jan 2013 #3
Really sad... Kalidurga Jan 2013 #4
Send them to prison. THey kidnapped a 5 year old. Deprived this mother of her child for 19 years. Tutonic Jan 2013 #5
The child was an adult when he turned 18, that was seven years ago happyslug Jan 2013 #8
There is no statute of limitations for kidnapping. Kidnapping is a Class A felony. Transportation Tutonic Jan 2013 #11
They have to pay for what they did. bitchkitty Jan 2013 #12
NO IT IS NOT! That just gives the next set of disgruntled... TheMadMonk Jan 2013 #15
how about a good ass beating then? snooper2 Jan 2013 #17
Do you want future grandparents to have the capability Pale Blue Dot Jan 2013 #26
She an sue them in civil court obamanut2012 Jan 2013 #10
This case is weird, Paternal Grandparents, but the father is NOT involved with the son happyslug Jan 2013 #7
Maybe they didn't claim the kid as a dependent on their taxes? catbyte Jan 2013 #13
Something wrong here....30miles away... Historic NY Jan 2013 #9
not 30 miles away 2pooped2pop Jan 2013 #14
Because the right hand is not allowed to know... TheMadMonk Jan 2013 #16
No. The SSA says that SSNs are not to be used other than for SSA purposes, but Thor_MN Jan 2013 #18
It's called a common law change of name. TheMadMonk Jan 2013 #19
As an employer I can tell you its impossible for us discover SS# fraud. riderinthestorm Jan 2013 #22
I wasn't talking about fraud. Thor_MN Jan 2013 #23
Yes, you only get affirmation that the number is "good", not who it exactly belongs to. riderinthestorm Jan 2013 #24
The only way I can express what this must be like... fascisthunter Jan 2013 #20
We don't know why they took the boy. I would like to know the facts. olddad56 Jan 2013 #21
Then they could sue for custody jeff47 Jan 2013 #27
Mother was living in car with step father marlakay Jan 2013 #25
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